Ehhm O.P there are a few you meet on your way in life that you can trust instinctively. Some can't be trusted even if you think u should be able to.
I have (had) a childhood friend who once tried on my gf. He always denied it, but the man can never ever be trusted. And me now being at the start of teh autumn of life I have figured I have not time for such people in my life nomore, so he is basically out now. I can't walk around looking over my shoulder for socalled friends.
Not gonna drag past histoare out far and wide but I apoligize (however that is spelled) if you felt I was supporting some hags. There is a chance I was friends with hwomever was your enemies, that might have been. But I didn't mean to take sides.
and my argument is still that even if you dislake a person you don't have to yell it out loud from the rooftops. I can admit I did it a few times myself, but each time asking myself is it right. So I seldom do it. Thumbs up on the other hand Wasn't there a saying "if you got nothing good to say stay rather quiet" ?
RE: something good
That's why I became secret frennemies with Bumgartner.