That makes complete sense. That sort of understanding I believe should be mutual. I mean, you should be able to have a discussion about what the boundries are and what areas are sensative and all. That is need to know info. Otherwise, stuff gets messed up, and everyone is in the dog house.
I have that type of "passion" or ethic for work. I put everything I have into my job and will quite and move on if I find that I am alone in my thinking of proper work ethic.
I really have not had a super serious relationship, so I don't know how I am w/ those. But my friendships are either intense or non-existant. I really don't have a ton of friends, because I put family first, and I have had bad experiences w/ some friendships.
Yeah, I agree. I am really slow to give out my number too. I feel that is just as private as knowing exactly where I live and my relatives names and all. I also really don't like talking on the phone that much. I'd prefer to write. Just wierd I guess.
True, true. I am a little frustrated by some of the guys I have met who ask me to completely true to them after the first meeting, boy is that knee slapper. I should change my intro to, "not a mail order bride" think that might work?
Makes sense, I can understand being a good penpal. Thats what I want to get out of this situation. But, of course would like to date.
Feel kind of funny trying to date anyone locally. Too many people know everyone around here, and that would be wierd to date a guy and realize I went to school w/ a couple of his old girlfriends. That would be too much for me . . . I think.
I haven't really met anyone or heard of many who have found love via the internet, but I have met quite a few people on the web and some are nice and sweet, while others I could leave alone. But I am still trying to feel out the whole dating online thing. I think I might be someone who needs a physical being around to form a relationship. Have others had similar thoughts or am I on my own? How quickly do you move after meeting someone online, especially if you click w/ them?
I always thought that the one doing the accusing might also be the one doing the cheating. You know, since one is doing wrong then the other has to be.
But I do understand when someone really is hurt and distrespected and can not trust others because of it. In that case, they need to work on themselves before they wish to draw others into their lives.
I don't think that people don't care. They are not here to chat about important life changing stuff. They want to joke and escape the world tumbling down around them. So maybe assuming they don't care is being a little pushy, and not a good way to get people to comment. IMO
I do care, but am so strapped for money that changing my lifestyle drastically would really send me in a tailspin. I - personally - am doing what I can to live a better and more efficient life. So I do care. And today, I just happen to feel like posting about the $$ situation. Sometimes I just want to read the comments. I figure spreading the info should be good enough.
Yeah, I've been trying to plan for this myself, but have so many bills (student loans and medical bills) that it makes it really dificult. My next move is to get a bike and ride the darn thing everywhere. Maybe that will work. Or at least help, then I wont be spending 4$-5$ a gallon on gas .
May not be having anything special tonight, but last night had a stew I threw together at the last minute for unexpected company. It wasn't too bad, but could have been better.
All at the same time? I mean, God's Babe holding a gun w/ USA tattooed on one arm and MOM tattooed on the other? Isn't that what we've always aimed for?
There's another thread about this also. It is truely horrible and sad that such a thing is happening. I have heard of other graves and memorials being vandalised recently and am left dumbstruck as to why anyone would do such thing.
It is a shame that people feel so little for themselves that they need to hurt others. It is sad what has happened to your friend. There have been several reporst of vandalism around here to. It seems hopeless sometimes, but he must remember her and their life together, that is what matters most.
How quickly do you move w/ a new relationship?
That makes complete sense. That sort of understanding I believe should be mutual. I mean, you should be able to have a discussion about what the boundries are and what areas are sensative and all. That is need to know info. Otherwise, stuff gets messed up, and everyone is in the dog house.