K.I.S.S = Keep it Simple Stupid! Use a simple intro. Be nice and confident. "hello, my name is so and so." You use a pick up line then it just sets you up to look like a doofus. Good luck.
I think if a question is too complex then the asker was unsure how to word it best. We all have had a couple of those moments where you're not quit sure what to say or how to say it. Though I guess it all depends on the person. Long enough answer for ya?
People are entitled to their opinions. Since I vote I feel I an entitled to speak mine too, but others my have a different opinion, go figure. And since my grand father was a marine and so was my cousin, and an uncle served two tours in Vietnam does that make me even more entitled to state my opnion? I think not. We all can say what we want, but we must learn to live with the reality that not everyone agrees with us and that there may be a back lash to our self importance. Our opinions are only as good as our ability to accept the opinions of others.
Thank You. I know that there are so many people ahving a hard time finding employment right now. It's so wierd to hear at my job that we are doing so much better financially and that we have made it out of the storm, then they start cutting people. Good people that do their jobs damn well, which is where my paranoia is coming from.
Thank you for your advice. It makes the most sense.
A lot of other countries suffer so much more that is for sure. But why do they hit the US? Because they can and it is a certainly a way to have your view heard. In any other area of life, like music/art/movies/dance, if you cna make it in the US then you ahve made it. So why would it be any different for terrorism. If you truely want to create terror, then hit the nation with the biggest target and the biggest threat. Those countries that are labeled as supper powers are going to be targeted because they are a force.
Never really seen a cliche play out and prove its self to be true. Though I think that in any given situation you might find that they played out just as one would think they should. But that depends all on the people and situation. Sorry, not much help.
I have hit a wall with me current job. I had switched to a different area about two years ago, then a year ago they pulled me back into my old (and now current) department. I am good at my job, but I am frustrated and crazy over how ill managed it is. I had left it previously for the same reason and now I am in the thick of shifty managment and game playing beyond anything I have experienced before. I am getting the vibe that if I switch out again I will set myself up for losing my job altogether, but if I stay then I may be fired. All simply because I am a straight forward person who will tell you like I see it because we have an open door policy and in the past the managment has always honored and respected such a policy. Now however, if our manager feels you don't like her or you have a little too much respect then she fires your butt.
We are also dealing with stomach flus running amuck through our store and I know my stress is making my health worse. The question: Should I just jump on the unemployment band wagon or stick it out? Should I make the switch to the other position and risk losing my job some time in june? Or stay put and shut my mouth?
The sticky part is that if I change my ways too much, everyone will notice. That would be bad. Is there any advice to be offered?
I have had a few of those wierd encounters, but I generally notice them before it becomes a lets meet stage.
I guess they could be using him, maybe he'll will have to wait for the woman to ask to meet him. Or invite her to meet on her terms, that way there would be no reason for her to be uncomfortable.
We need to know ourselves first and foremost. Both our faults and strengths, which are sometimes one in the same. What we need to focus on is finding a "dance partner" to move through life with us. Other wise we will be doing the jig solo. ->
tipaly81 Forum Posts (950)
I am so darn "independent" that I have been single for ages. 
Good luck.
just need a preacher . . . . 
I plead the 5th.
RE: It is 10 pm here in Chicago
Water . . . .