Wow, That is rough. In my family my grandfather had his inheritance picked through by my Great-grandfather's wife's children. Non of them were really part of the family. I mean their parents had married after they had all grown up, so they had no reason to take or look through my grandfather's things.
Similar things happened to my step-dad. He actually lost Millions because his relatives took it after his grandmothers death, then informed him of her passing.
Sorry, really got off topic. But I think that some how prenups and wills and such are all tied together. If you re-write the prenup, then you re-write the will, and maybe visa versa.
It's a positive. I have seen my family lose stuff over a divorce or even a death in the family. Generally other people on the opposite side of the family or marriage will snag stuff before we realize it.
I mean it's just stuff, but hang it all it's our stuff. I my case, farming land. So I say PRENUP and an air tight will. better safe then sorry.
Maybe I just stopped buying stuff. For the most part I ask myself, do I have room for this? do I need this? will it be used right away or more then once?
But there are items I don't even try to resist. Books, CDs and DVDs. I am really bad at that. But am getting better.
I am here to find someone, but the one's who want to chat w/ me are a little to quick to ask about marriage and kids and such. They are also from other countries, and open up a conversation w/ me by saying that they are looking for their wife.
What the heck am I to say to that. I would lie to find someone, yes, but marriage? maybe not. don't know just yet any ways.
And age can be just a number. But that needs be something agreed upon by you and your love interest.
I compartamentalize my money. Savings, checking, another savings . . . safety deposit box. And I also turn in recyclables for $ and use that for spending or gas. But that only helps a little.
I am also picky about what I spend money on. And I can get free food from work.
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