No. That was a change I made when I became single. Decided anything that happened, I would be better off if I was healthy and at an appropriate weight. I don't like risk. The flip side is I REALLY like no lose situations and a healthy life style fits. I cook for the week on Sunday. (just finished) I'm all set. Work, gym, by then it's close to 7, a little cs and its off to bed. Boring, but healthy. (i admit to being a little boring in my profile)
YESSSSSSSSS, my ex did all the cooking when I was married. I have discovered I am quite good at it. You'll have to come over for supper some night. (weekends only, don't cook during the week)
Sometimes I don't care for what I seem to be becoming. I'm a little to.... mechanical... practiced. I find myself saying the same things. Looking for signs of ....whatever. When i was first single, i didn't know what games were. Now I'm being forced to learn. Don't like it one damn bit. Is this part of the progression? Should I pull into the pit stop for a while? Most sound like they may have gotten past this?
I was afraid someone was going to ask me. I'm still sorting it out but it's not all positive. I'm hoping to identify some patterns that make me feel like i'm sort of in a normal progression. 3 years for me (officially) since the gavel came down anyway.
Funny you should say that. As I have stated, I have limited experience, but I find NO correlation between a woman's outward public persona and what they are like in bed. ZERO. You never know. How about you KH, you old single cutter?
Misunderstood your question a little bit. No. I don't gravitate to wild women at all. As a matter of fact, in my profile, I specifically state that I am not interested in the biker life style because I enjoy a more laid back (no pun intended, I'm not that clever)woman.
Can't you let us know somehow? The whole "she looks down or away" (Ginger) sounds so counter intuitive. How do you know she's not repulsed? As you can see, I'm a little weak in the first contact department.
(lowers voice) sorry. You have a way of cutting to the chase mam. Yeh. Hate the risk. It's funny though. I've written this before. The more interested I am in a women, the more nervous I am. If it's a social situation with women, like the bank for instance, I'm a really funny, personable guy but put me in front of a women I'm interested in and I lock up unless she can bring it out in me a little. That's why it would be nice to know if she had any interest in me in advance, but then there's no risk. Round and round we go.
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Have you evolved as a single person over time?
No. That was a change I made when I became single. Decided anything that happened, I would be better off if I was healthy and at an appropriate weight. I don't like risk. The flip side is I REALLY like no lose situations and a healthy life style fits. I cook for the week on Sunday. (just finished) I'm all set. Work, gym, by then it's close to 7, a little cs and its off to bed. Boring, but healthy. (i admit to being a little boring in my profile)