Geez, I know exactly what it is but I can't...put it into words. There never seems to be any awkwardness. the first kiss just happens. You never seem to run out of things to talk about. You have problems but getting past them is like falling off a log.??????????
I wonder if you need to forget. Just like john says. A heart is a big place. Maybe all you need to do is set it aside (poor choice of words, but hopefully you understand.) Your hurting because you can love deeply and that's a good thing, maybe the best of things. Don't lose that capacity and you have a chance for it to happen again. I'm sorry your having a hard time.
So, you have no love for the father of your children. (forgive me if you don't have any, I haven't read your profile) (I'm tying "maker's mark" for the first time myself tonight. Don't usually go for the Kentucky stuff)
Don't get me wrong felix. I wouldn't put up with a so that spent a lot of time with an ex but when a womone tells you she still has a place in her heart for the father of her children.... What...I blow her off. Seems ........wrong. I don't know?
You are a wise man, John. Sometime I wish you didn't know what you were talking about. (you'll get that later) but a wise man just the same. Tahnks for your post.
Other way around. Tall women seem to be completely turned off by shorter guys. One girl told me shorter men made her feel like sasqach. That's been the biggest surprise in online dating scene. Women's concern over height. I thank god every night I'm 6'1"
I guess I don't know where forgetting ties in with baggage. Try not to hold your next partner responsible for the last. Try not to assume they have the same values as the partner that treated you poorly. I think the real thrust of this thread might be for all who find themselves in a position to by untrustworthy, for cristsakes, think, think about the destruction of trust and all the people you're going to hurt and you won't do it to begin with. It would be nice if these threads weren't necessary. unrealistic I suppose. I'm a hypocrite trying to use my experience to help others btw.
If your so is still in love with their ex or your still in love with yours how do you manage (reconcile) this. I mean, if you really loved someone, there will always be a place in your heart that is theirs and yet it must be O.K. to love again, mustn't it? Especially big john and somechick but all of us that have been deeply in love before....Discussion, opinions?
bob1959 Forum Posts (1,874)
Maine Now lets see, A nice suitable guy, well, that's a problem
RE: Falling In LOVE!!!
I hope i feel it again someday!