I have four step children from a twenty year marriage. I may know more about this than any other replies. Your talking girls here, which means miniature adults. They are unbelievably intuitive. Everybody says no gifts. I say they are wrong. You know the situation but something you can do together is a good idea. Maybe a puzzle or a board game, a card game, something to play together (including mom). The game is not that important. They need a chance to interact with you in a fun way. Remember, the older one will be watching closely to how you treat the little ones. As far as affection, let them come to you. Hugs and things should be initiated by the kids. Pda's with mom are o.k. but go easy at first. Let them see mom happy with you but not over the top. Remember, your not perfect, there not perfect and that's O.K. My step kids are the best part of my previous marriage. Best of luck. (little girls-you lucky dog, I envy you!!) Bob
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