See the whole problem with that is, you get a bit comfortable with someone - like the woman said - in 2 months, then you find things out that you didn't realize initially. So...I am tired of the 2 month surprise...it has happened a few times to me and I give up. For me, that is the healthiest way to go.
I am truly sorry for you loss, but you had said in your post that changing your profile would be what you would do-basically, or did I get that wrong? In any case, do what makes you feel comfortable. A lot of people have given you different scenerios.
now when someone has a tragic problem in their relationship--we can just direct them to this thread and they can sort it all out. Thank you Hugz... it is your job to remember the name of the thread though...
yes, we all put on the rose colored glasses to make excuses and rationalize for the other one at one point or another in our lives. Maybe when you reach emotionally maturity you can understand her concepts and embrace them better?
Very strong advice Hugz...shades of grey surround many relationships. Hopefully it will make a bit of sense and help a few people stop making excuses for their shady relationships. Although I don't think so---most ppl don't want to admit it.
to the strength of human spirit and your friend Phil. May he show just how strong a person can be. Prayers and good thoughts for him hunni...thank you for sharing.
RE: Say Something, No Need for Names...?!
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