I think that has more to do with your perception than anything. The one thing I have found is that guys do like to get to know the inner person when they are being real. You need to pick out better guys to get to know. I've never had a problem and I am old plus no beauty queen.
Post, have fun and be patient. Your prince will come. No one wants a grumpy gal who is down on herself. Working on that will help.
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good luck to you given time, you will find what you are looking for.
not really sure how many men have dated guys in their lives, so I'm not sure how much experience they would have....to ask women, then we can kinda patch our experiences and ideas together and see what we come up with. Although she never excluded men by any means.
did you ever think he is lonely and hasn't been having female company that is interested in him, so he talks about himself. If you listen, and ask questions about him as he is talking, you will get to know him. As far as getting to know you, I truly think that time will come. For all you know, he may feel as he already knows you. Given time, I think it might work out-the ball is in your court-are you gonna let it just bounce away because you are a bigger attention ho than me and hugzz put together????
Could it be that he is just very worried about his mother?
I think that you may be judging him way too soon, wanting too much too soon. I know that you are like a revved up mustang, waiting to hit the pavement, but you really just need to stop expecting anything from him and see where he takes you. Slowing your roll, as you could just throw away a possible good match-and not really even knowing why.
Maybe cut down on phone calls, or talk for less time for right now. You seem to need much more than he can give at the time. You really haven't said anything bad about him, other than his mom is sick-which isn't bad, but it could be an indication of why he isn't focusing.
Larry is right in all that he said about Scorpios hunni--I have never come across one that was any other way.
asking him if he had a good childhood is really an empty question. did he define good? I think that you should play the 20 question game with him and see if he gives it a go. Maybe even like a high school thing, but who cares, ask him to write down 20 questions that he wants to know about you, and you go ahead and write down 20 questions you want to know about him. Make some fun, some interesting, and some deep. If he's game, at least you will know 20 things about him you never knew before. It does work, if he is willing.
RE: Say something....to anyone....BE NICE.....
depends, you lookin' too?