Instead of being a bit rough, why don't you try to understand what the op is saying?
Did he say he wanted to get his rocks off? I didn't read anything like that. THAT came from YOUR perverted mind. Own it.... it's funny you know the sites to do it on...
because individuals are different, thus altering the outcome or goings on when 2 worlds collide.
Sounds like you revealed too much to these women. Honesty is not necessarily the best policy when it is no one's business. Your past relationships are between you and those past women. They should not color today. Nor should they be discussed within newly formed meetings. It's not their business. Later on in relationships, when feelings are formed, then chatting about your past is okay. Don't feel like you have to tell all right off the bat. You don't.
As far as time heals all wounds, I don't believe that for a moment. jmo
RE: Since when did dating here and IRL become....
you haven't yet, but I'm a never say die kinda person