Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

hmmm ...

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

I see your point Jac.thumbs up

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

Really? So dating is about "standards"...ONLY? Hmph!...smh

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

laugh

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

Are YOU undateable G?grin

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

Here's what I got from a dictionary (via Google, of coursegrin)

undateable
Describes an individual so flawed that they cannot possibly be dated by anyone.
E.g.
Mandy: Phil is so completely undateable. I have no idea why my cousin set us up.
Tamara: What happened?!?
Mandy: For starters, he is 35 and lives with his parents, and he smelled like rotten vegetation. And there were nose hairs.
Tamara: Agreed. Undateable.

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

"Somebody can be that of their own choosing
by shutting the door tight for potensial suitors.
Not want any of such in their life.
Nomather how hard you try you wan't get a fair chance."

Well G, someone who just doesn't want to date isn't really undateable. It just means that they're NOT interested in dating. Being "undateable" seems to imply that he/she has some defect that's preventing the person from being eligible to date.

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

I really thought that the term was used to declare that another person (not oneself) was 'undateable' due to certain flaws or personal circumstances that he/she had. Thus, my assumption that is was used as an insult.

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

wow You seem to be very certain about that, CG. Care to explain...?

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

wave Friendship, thanks for enlightening me. I hadn't though of it being a personal choice. Makes sense though.hmmm

Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm:

I've read some comments in the BLOGS recently where certain bloggers have used the term "undateable", which is kinda/sorta new to me. I know that when I've heard in in the past, it was used as an insult, but could anyone really be "undateable"?

I've read about and seen very old people dating, I've read and seen people with mental and physical challenges dating, I've even read of imprisoned persons 'dating' (via phone calls and letters). So, what could make somebody undateable? dunno confused hmmm











P.S. I'd hate to think that I might be......undateable.uh oh blues crying moping sigh

RE: How would you react if someone proposed to you for dating?

laugh

JOKES ABOUT DATING that me me cry laughing!

laugh Thanks Karl. I forgot just how funny the "Despicable me" movies are.

RE: childhood habits

DL, there are some good ones, some not-so-good ones and some naughty ones.grin Two good ones are climbing trees and playing with boys in the neighbourhood (I was a tom-boy for a while so I followed after my brothers), and snacking (mostly on sweet snacks). I've long since stopped doing the former (even though I may still "play with a boy" from time to timewink), but the latter ,happily, still remains a habit.

RE: guess the word

laugh

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

That's what the good book says....wine

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

We are like-minded in this, DL. wine

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

"Sometimes keeping silence is better than instant reaction. Let the mind calm down, then judge again with a calm mind and things will make better sense."

Wise words DL; I agree.thumbs up

RE: guess the word

Love is not only blind but also dumb and deaf.

Which would you prefer to do?

Ok.wine

"I often wonder if our star signs affect us as I'm a Capricorn therefore a Winter baby."

I've never thought about it, TM. I really don't follow the horoscope that closely.dunno

RE: guess the word

That's "I love you", the answer to which could either be "91215225251521 201515" or "941514201215225251521". grin









Nice game DL.thumbs up

RE: guess the word

laugh 1952425 might be better.

RE: What are your hobbies?

Watching my favourite TV shows, and movies, and comedy specials, and youtube videos whilst snacking and hanging out with Sweetie. Oh, and posting on CS (like CH saidgrin ).

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

"...that doesn't mean we approve. it means we've accepted certain things beyond our control.

on the outside of that, we may choose to keep a distance of such things. no matter what we decide on how to deal with things, we have been judgy and it influences our actions."


Agreed.thumbs up

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

According to the Cambridge Dictionary:

judgy-
adjective informal
UK /'d??d?.i/ US /'d??d?.i/

too quick to criticize people:
He's so judgy when it comes to other people's mistakes.

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

Aha! So then, 'not being judgy' may mean not being quick to "cast the first stone". That definitely makes sense. thumbs up

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

"...we can't help but note things and people around us. it will always be based on our own, individual, thoughts and cares."



This is true, but I think that a person would be 'judgy' if he/she used ONLY those things you mentioned. However, if he/she were to also consider the other person's position/cares/thoughts, then...maybe not?hmmm

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

O-K.

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

hmmm okaaayyy...

What does "not being judgy" sound like?

So what do you think a 'non-judgey' person sounds like/is CH?

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