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GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

Perfect! That's what everyone hopes for, I think. Thanks for sharing Bod.

What do you do when.....?

That's ok.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

OK.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

And that's exactly one reason why she shouldn't have allowed him to stay at her home. That wasn't nice of him at all.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

I agree with you Gal. Not only does it provide a "cushion", but if things don't work out, then at least you have someplace to stay (i.e. if the person puts you out).

Thanks for your input.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

Well Tru, that may not be the ONLY problem for me, but I certainly share your concern.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

Thanks for your input, Rohaan.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

Good point B, that way your trip could have a bit my interest, esp if the relationship thing doesn't work out.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

That's quite possible, Dan. 'He' might do the same too.

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GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

W, now that's reasonable. Thanks for your opinion.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

CC, whilst I think that your idea of staying at one of my friend's on the first night is a great one, I don't have access to such 'good' and accommodating friends (). And those very few persons who I know wouldn't mind, don't have the space.

GENTLEMEN ONLY...Would you have a problem with this? If so, why?

Scenario:

You've connected with someone on a dating site from another country, and, after some time, agreed to meet the person. Whilst making arrangements, the question arose about where you should stay during your visit. Would you have a problem staying at a nearby Hotel/BnB?

You've already been offered airport pick-up (and drop-off, too), as well as to be taken on brief tours around the area/beach, etc, and he/she has even offered to cook for you (to minimize cost and ensure that you have a fun time, even if you don't 'click' as a couple).

So, would you have a problem with this arrangement? I'd appreciate your candid opinions. Thanks, in advance men. teddybear

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Nice idea Dreams, but not really feasible for me. Thanks for the suggestion though.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Better to safe than sorry. Not so, Jac?

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

That's a great idea, Dan. Thanks for the suggestion. I'll do that soon.

What do you do when.....?

I hear you DL, but I don't believe that it should be necessary for either party to operate based upon your last statement, in order for respect/courtesy to prevail between us. Following the "Golden Rule" should be enough.

What do you do when.....?

I agree with your perspective Selenite, and it makes sense. However, their is a sort of hierarchy due to age and responsibilities (I am older by 15 years, I am co-owner of our house with my older brother and the sole Executrix of my mother's will, managing her 'estate' for the last 5+ years). She is the youngest sibling, and have been a bit spoilt (by all of us older ones). She demonstrates an attitude of 'entitlement' that sometimes affects her expectations of others (including me).

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Thanks for your input Merc.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

CC, last I checked, this thread said "LADIES ONLY"....but please excuse me, if indeed you ARE one.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

I don't mind them "snooping" , but I am more interested in 'hearing' what the ladies have to say, because their perspective/s and experiences are more relevant (to me). The men could lend their support by giving as many 'thumbs up' (or thumbs down) as they want. Any other points are welcome, but I'd really prefer to have the ladies' comments first, please men.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Dan, I agree with you and want to avoid having to endure any "horror stories" of my own.

In one's excitement to meet who might be 'the one', one might overlook the possibility of him/her being a huge 'disappointment', un-trustworthy or ill-intentioned - a psycho, as you said.

Thanks for your advice.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Tanzila, I see your point clearly; It would make a difference being the 'FIRST' meeting hence the need for caution. Thanks much for your insights.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Friendship, I'm not sure that "congratulations" are in order, but I am grateful for your advice. Thanks much.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Gosh, DL, I want to hear from 'ladies'. Perhaps when they're done, you could.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Shame on you Gal! LOL.

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

OMG! You guys just can't resist being nosey, can you?

LADIES ONLY...Which would you do, and why?

Scenario:

You've connected with someone on a dating site from another country, and, after some time, agreed to meet the person. Whilst making arrangements, the question arose about where the person should stay during his/her visit. Would you let the person stay at your home, or would you prefer that the person stay at a nearby Hotel/BnB?

You've already offered to meet him/her at the airport, as well as take them around, and even provide meals and entertainment during their stay (to minimize cost and ensure that they have a fun time, even if they don't 'click' as a couple).

So, what would you do, and why? I'd appreciate your candid opinions. Thanks, in advance.

What do you do when.....?

Thanks for the advice Tru, I'll keep that in mind.