Actually, that 30 da warrenty is really just a myth- Canadian Consumer Protection Agency informed me of such-BUT, becasue the problem had been ongoing from time of purchase, it was their legal responsibility to find and fix problem on their dime. She told me they knew it, but would try to get out of it, which they did. Haven't heard from them , probably all and wondering how long cramps last - it was seriously funny! And my car, we fit, she is good, all is good - well sorta
yep, you are right, never thought of that one- I did grow the kid did't I! My sis and I talked last night about it all, and it is the phoniness of the whole situation that is hard to take...and phonie is something that I am not! Clue, only 3 days ago did she tell me what time the wedding was at...its all a bit oddish to say the least - and I do feel somewhat patronized...doesn't matter, not about me. Will be there, put a smile on my face, say nothing, nod my head at appropriate times and exit gracefully and silently when the opportunity is there. Sometimes we have to do what we have to do, whether we want to or not. Am going because I don't want to hurt Brit, I am staying for a while for the same reason and I am leaving cuz I know when it is the time to do so (for my own sanity).
I CAN DO THAT - fairly easy for me to have only one thought right now...does that mean I have to quit thinking about other stuff at the same time...yikes!!! I know that this job will be a huge challenge, but that is what I am all about ...never have done too much of anything the easy way!
I am going to be an effing mess before I even get there, thinking of a good shot or two of black berry brandy - not advocating self medicating, but man, I did it to euligize my gramps, and I did it well...I like what you said about your aunt Kim, I was leaning that way...it is okay to jsut be there and stay in sidelines and leave when I need to...that is what I will do...Thanks
I have always planned on going - would never miss seeing one of my children get married (even though I think it is a stupid thing to do), I would never let step mommy have that kind of influence on me - that would only fuel her fire and be giving her what she wants. The issue I am having is I don't want to stay; I am so not a faker, I cannot pretend and I am who I am - I want to know if it would be considered rude or disrespectful to my daughter if I quietly just left, no drama, nothing after the ceremony. I have absolutely no desire at all to participate in this at all, nor have I particpated in any of it up till now, that is been the role of dad and his wife, as they live in the same town. For the sake of self preservation I have been very removed from the situation and kinda want to keep it that way I here and value what everyone says, but just as advice I give, it's often easier to say than do -absolute fear can have extreme power. Guess I have to do what I have to do...
Thoughtful question kid@ ; realistic? everyone has their own reality, but I do think it really boils down to a healthy balance, nothing overboard, you know what I mean? Respect, humour, consideration, kindness, dignity...ya know? Sure you do - the same things that most "normal" men expect from women
By the end of this week probably...I am not getting my hopes up/staying pretty nuetral about it - that is how I handle anticipation; that way if the outcome is positive it is a pleasant sorta surprise and if the outcome is negative, i am not disappointed! Thanks of asking.
NOOOOOO!!! Jenn - don't go to the dark side...just step back and take a regroup breather (we can do that) Keep your girl power...I am not kidding when I say that everything happens for a reason...every minute detail in life is all choreographed; we are just the dancers!! you choose the dance...does that make sense?
Well, was a bit overcast and drizzly(?), so wore black slacks with a black blazer....and....a cute little dark coral tank which is, I guess a shade of pink Think it is equivelant to what taupe is to beige is to tan is to off white...Oh and I think the interview went pretty well...I really want this new job NO WEEKENDS!!!
I have to go to my daughter's wedding this weekend; Don't get me wrong, I really do want to see my girl get married - and that is about it - and see little princess in her "gown" (finding that dress was almost painful). Anyway, the stepmother has been very, how should say, nasty, rude, ignorant...and that ain't the tip of the iceberg. It will take ever once of strength I have to not have a full fledged anxiety attack. But, medication, of all varieties, is out of the question. I need to be on my BEST behaviour! I need to know: How long am I required to stay at this event? Would it be rude to leave before the supper or right after? Is it okay for me to just quiety slip away? What the hell should I do? Advise?
Hows about I just wait to see what the weather is like in the morn, then I'll decide....wouldn't want to be under or over dressed... will get back to you on that, K? Nite
Oh, guess what! I have a job interview in the morning and I am still trying to figure out what the hell to wear...was thinking of this really cute pink top I just bought, up until about two minutes ago, and now.... have to be able to keep a straight face through this process...
oh, me too - Kim and I discussed that earlier on, the H20 with alcohol in a zippy is the best for that - frozen peas - you eat them, not? what would you be referring to Kid?
Who knows what the right answer is, For seniors? Yes, and taking into account Christian beliefs, again who knows. Really Holland, don't you think it is all just a crap shoot in a way...Maybe neither is the "right" choice. Maybe each keep their own place, have their own space, get together for your dates and sleep overs. I might be on to something there - That might add to the longevity of the relationship; thus, the success and happiness Think about it....
Finally, have my "blessed" car back as of Saturday! Deal is this Curly, when the aftermarket alarm and/or command start shorted the day after I bought the car, it burnt the solinoid (?) in the starter - so it would connect on a random hit or miss basis. When presented with the bill, I very politely and diplomatically explained that according to the ministry of justice and Canadian Consumer Protection -the financial onus is on the dealership. I then explained that I had a migraine and CRAMPS!! Holy hell, might as well have yelled INCOMING!! - Men scatter (the power of one word). Was quickly provided with my car keys and the words "we will figure this out at a later date". They sent off on my merry, albeit crampy way! I will have to deal with this - can't have cramps forever must remember the "cramps" thing next time pulled over for speeding - don't think tears will work again
That was then, this is now I was very confused about the whole sinking of the ship stuff and all - got home very late, tired , popped in and read and said HUH?
RE: My life....or Ripley's Believe it or Not lol
Actually, that 30 da warrenty is really just a myth- Canadian Consumer Protection Agency informed me of such-BUT, becasue the problem had been ongoing from time of purchase, it was their legal responsibility to find and fix problem on their dime. She told me they knew it, but would try to get out of it, which they did. Haven't heard from them , probably all and wondering how long cramps last - it was seriously funny! And my car, we fit, she is good, all is good - well sorta