However ,that scenario will happen time and time again
untill she takes a bit of action.
Unless she wants it (being well) for herself , the only thing you can do is love from a distance .
Kitz a relitive of mine drank themselves to death . I know how you feel ,believe me. But you must live your own life and heal yourself .
Perhaps seing you get well (I mean in that you are not emeshed in her pain) that will give her the incentive to get well. Its like opperant conditioning ,the child see that behaving like she does gets her attention , she gets the resutls she wants . However refuse that attention , running when there is a crisis , and allowing her to clean up after herself ,could change the situation . Thats my wish for you and her.
Yes MF contrary to some of the insults that I chose to laugh
at the last few days on here .
Its no rumour , I do think for myself and make important decisions for myself .Amazing isn't it ? An Irish woman able to process and converse with my betters
Yes MF contrary to some of the insults that I chose to laugh
at the last few days on here .
Its no rumour , I do think for myself and make important decisions for myself .Amazing isn't it ? An Irish woman able to process and converse with my betters
RE: RESPECT
Yes you got it ,no biggie !!Good luck with controlling the forum.
This is an old topic , but I do stand by your right to post it.
But if you are so fed up after a very short time here ,
well leave then you won't have the bother .