When I was in my teens and twenties drifting from one low wage job to another I was invisible to women. After I graduated from university and entered a well paying profession in my late twenties, women who wouldn't have given me the time of day before were smiling and flirting. However, they were no longer attractive to me because they start hitting the wall at 26. Recently bought a nice car and have a very good job and my own place. I love being a man, but I am a very patient man! Strong and Independent women often forget about the second part of the phrase....independent! The wall awaits, independence lies on the other side of the wall! Where you can be as strong and independent as you want to be!
It's quite simple really. Prior to age 30 women have the advantage in the dating market, but after that age the pendulum swings the other way. Many women don't discover that until it's too late. There is sadly a large amount of Age 30+ single women on anti-depressants. What women don't understand is that nature is unforgiving. There is a time limit for fertility and beauty.
The problem women over 30 have when dating is that they still assume they can still date mostly men of their own age. In reality, they're too old for that and should look for men in their 40s. Women, compared to the pool of men they have access to in early 20s, have access to way less men by the time they turn 30. After 30, a woman generally starts losing her ability to bear children, quickly or slowly. In addition, good looks fade and she eventually becomes "invisible" to men.
I used to date some women in their early/mid 30's. With few exceptions, they turned out to be bitter, distrustful of men, and emotionally scarred from previous relationships. In addition, I find so few women over 32 to be attractive physically. Perhaps 1 in 50 women aged 30-35 are attractive to me compared to 1 in 15 for women 20-28.
Let’s keep something real here. Men over 30 that have created value for themselves in life physically and financially which were shunned away in the teens and 20’s are now on the winning side of the spectrum. Yes, these same men are now punishing these post wall women for their past mistakes and not locking down a man of value when they were in their 20’s. Instead they decided to put the so called “nice guys” on hold while they decided to play with various roosters. This is a generational problem and it seems that a lesson will never be learned here, mainly thanks to feminism. The SM is deregulated, high value men have options and the post wall ladies are getting punished for ignoring the good men of their past. That is a fact. Enjoy your cats!
Many men have a cut off age of 30 years old on the dating apps – despite their own age being significantly older.
A woman I know told me dating got very harder after she turned 30. She says before 30 she had lots of options and had interest from men. Now she said, nobody cares anymore as she's 33. And she found no man interested in pursing a long-term relationship even after trying for 3 years. She said all other women she knows after 30 have the same issue. For women after 30, it becomes harder getting serious relationships because you have you less options as Men tend to be attracted to younger women in their 20's. I don't see that changing anytime soon. So many women make the mistake of spending their 20's on their career and rejecting genuine Men in the hope that they "deserve better" but by the time they hit the wall at 30, it's nearly always too late to find a Man by that stage because the pool of eligible Men rapidly shrinks. The "dating power flip at age 30", as it's called, is worth looking up.
Height matters because taller women are generally more able to have healthier babies and at full term-birth. I see this all the time.
Also, a woman over Age 30 is less fertile, as women lose eggs each month; and a decrease in egg quality, as naturally, with age, their eggs are more likely to contain chromosomal abnormalities (mistakes in their DNA).
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