hollandgirl Forum Posts (4,464)

Do you need a lot of space when in a relationship or..............

When married we were the bobsy twins, joined at the hip.
It never felt that either one of us was choking the other.
My last relationship was with someone who was the total opposite.
Needing a lot of space.
He could spend most of the day by himself.
Too much the opposite of what I had been used to for 21 years.
Today I would not mind to be left alone more than when married.
Happy medium would be okay.
Adjusting to different partners is the way it has to go and it is okay.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

My husband used to cut my nails and I would go bananas. It would tickle but the massaging was not.
It was good because it was the only time we would talk.
For the rest he was a person who liked solitude, too much of it for me.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

OMG another beautiful redhead not much chance that Pat will look here. What a loss lol.
Nothing wrong with being proud of your feet.That is not weird at all.
I was operated on bunions and ever since my big toe is a bit separated from the rest.
My late husband used to tell me that had he seen this before he married me, he wouldn't have. Just kidding.
Not long ago I had someone in my life who could spend 1-2 hours massaging my feet everyday.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Oh goody Dawn you saw this expression, never heard this one before.
Ah does it matter where you lived?
Lol so your waiting for spring to see about those bugs

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Oh watch out girl there is one guy on here who goes nuts when he sees a redhead lol
I never, until coming onto dating sites heard the expressing;
"I clean up well" So far only heard this from men.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

I am really surprised how many women do it to somechick.
Hey very nice picture.
Tomorrow I will be working at the Thrift store again so will check out the dresses.
Most of my clothes come from there.
Except my shoes that is.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

See Tina join the rest of the women.
I normally don't pay too much attention to what is in style.
I could not help to notice how many women in Australia 3 years ago wore a dress.
Yep it has come back in.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Reading the responses on here I see a lot of the women like to wear a dress or skirt, and often do so.
Yet look around at the mall you see the majority of women in slacks.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

This reminds me of something that happened a very long time ago.
I was invited to a party and was told by the hostess that many of the guest where doctor's and other professionals.
Of course I dressed up. So did one other girl. (bless her lol)
Well to my surprise the other guest had been doing some kind of sport and came in looking pretty grubby.
The two of us felt like a couple of fools, in our cocktail dresses.
It really was the fault of the hostess as she knew about the other guest.
From then on believe me I did ask more questions.
That is smart to bring a dress in case, and yes we do want to please our date.
Most men do like us to dress in a dress or skirt.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

What about in your spare time then you can wear dresses.
I wonder why most dresses that I see are sleeveless.
I can wear them as I work out with weights but I don't like it.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

All the cotton clothes I ever see need to be ironed and yes who does Not hate to iron?
I see cotton shorts and you can bet you need to iron them or they look like hell.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

No shorts because of work I suppose.
I love bare legs too but only if I get some tan.
Right now they look like I have been sick or in jail.
Spend a year ago a month in Mexico oh la la did my legs tan.
Checked myself in the mirrow often to compare them to my white butt lol

Does that cotton not need to be ironed?

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Sure hope that dcj22 sees this as it is soooo poetic.....

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Do you use nylon's or bare legs?

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

"Bite" me lol

RE: Texas Raid on Polygamist Sect

Taking these children away from the mother's? WRONG.
Many other things going on in this cult is also wrong.
Many of the boys are kicked out because they become competion for the old goats.
What about the mother's in this case I am sure they are not having a voice as the men are in charge.
The Mormon's believe that when they die they get a planet all there own.
Hence needing large families to start to populate that planet.

Instruction for life on the back of a box.................

True story Mike?

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

True sometimes even when staying home I dress up some.
It does lift my spirits so yes at that time it is just for me.
This is not a daily thing I do for myself.
Just do this once in awhile.
Maybe I should do it more for myself.

RE: Who 'needs' a partner?

About a year and a half after my husband died I met a man who was in a hurry to marry me.
I started to realize he started to be controlling.
Being still vunerable at the time, it felt good for awhile, mistaking it for, wow he really cares.
Let him go, it felt like a loss again at first almost when my husband died. Everything was empty.
I had to re-adjust and now am okay again.
I mean it is okay to be alone now. Have found myself once again.
Between husbands I spend 20 years alone.
Lol did not marry my second husband on the rebound eh?

I miss being with someone, sharing all things with him, very much.
My marriage was a very good one, making it more difficult to know I have lost him forever.
Life is for the living so I am/have to be going on.
I can not be anything than to be up front about everything about myself.
Being open leaves me funerable, the chance to get hurt more but hey I keep doing it and take willingly the risk.
I read somewhere that a woman ought to be more mysterious.
Hmm well too late for me as I don't feel I want to practice that one lol, doubt I could do it, It just wouldn't be me.
I don't think I would make a very good actor it that respect.

If I care about you, trust me you will know it!
I "threaten" to still crawl on your lap.
So do I need someone in my life? Well I am having to wear socks to bed. So yes, I need someone to warm my feet.
Only a warm body could do this for me.

Lol I tried net working remember that thread? Shucks no one has a brother, uncle neighbour, someone who would be a good foot warmer. Bummer!
Next!

Instruction for life on the back of a box.................

Mike tell us in plain English please.
There is a story here right?

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Brings up the question do we dress for the men or for ourselves?
I feel personally it is mostly for the men.
This morning when going out, I surely did Not do it for me.
Yet the benefit for me was that it made me feel good.

RE: This is the nicest, most caring lady...

Sorry Tamarin I don't know this lady.
Please tell her Not too kill you as she can only do this one time.
Torturing you a bit may be a better plan

Serious this is a very beautiful gesture from you!
For you Tamarin.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Hello Hedi that is exactly what I told you're love in this thread too.
"I know someone who would want to see you in dresses" Yep!

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Right on Pedal it makes you feel more feminine.
Seldom seeing women in dresses I am surprised to read how many of you do own them.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Sorry to say it but get used to it.
My ex wore often slacks and a jacket.
Came home and told me this is it!
Everybody wants to know if I am going to a wedding.
Well at my wedding some where dressed up and the boss came in jeans and a sweater. (Rude? Yeah very rude)

You almost begin to feel stupid going to a Christmas party and find many in sweaters, and you're dressed up.
So who to join?

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Not very often, no, but when I do.....[/quote]

Come on Rose don't be soo modest the men want to know.......
Please finish the sentence.
We owe it to the guys to light their fire at times lol agree?

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Yeah I get lazy too.
Good for you when going out to wear a dress.
Today you see people going to weddings and concerts, in sweaters and jeans.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Oh that is sooo sad.
Does this help a little?


I am like the Salvation Army )Sally Ann)love to help.

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

Forgot to ask caspatch, does the dog sleep with you too?
If your answer is yes okay then your all set eh?
Gives you kisses and keeps you warm and is company

Ladies do you wear a dress or skirt at times?..........

I believe you ought to hear this from "the horses mouth"
"Lifesajoy" see her post on top, can tell you all you need to know about this subject of kisses versus C.P.R.