Lonely1 Forum Posts (1,858)

RE: Why Women Sleep with a guy the Same Night...

Because they are hotttttttt!

RE: Can you trust someone who says they are trying to quit smoking?

I think it is highly possible, but the first thing is to keep away from other smokers. I have seen peeps do it. I don't have a problem with smoking myself, since I only seem to do it when I am in the smoking crowd. I have not done it for more than five years.

Fathers role in parenting

You are the man.

Despite what some peeps will say, a lot of men do love their kids. Our roles are different from their mothers. Kids will always seek the softer spot that comes from their moms, but a fathers love builds strength and character.

Fathers role in parenting

Yes, we did that too, and the kids also found out that we loved them as well.

Fathers role in parenting

Fathers role in parenting

Fathers role in parenting

Such a great post, brother. Sounds like you have been the perfect dad. I am kind of tempted to ask you why you are separted but I know it is none of my business.

Dads do play a role in their kids life. Bad dads make it bad for good ones. Some moms also make it bad for the father of the child because of what they fill their heads with. Of course in this case it is not the dad who is wrong but the moms.

We give them values...teach them right from wrong. Sometimes we have to set limits in order to instill discipline and self control in order to teach them the value of things and of right and wrong.

I don't know which society will survive if we just leave the little darlings to do as they please as they grow up.

Fathers role in parenting

We all know the role of mothers: they love, cherish, and protect their kids.

They carry them in their womb for 9+ months and endure the problems that goes with child birth. They bathe them, dress them, make their breakfast, lunch and dinner, and tucks them in at nights. They help them in school, help them through their growing years and even when they are adults.

They are at their weddings, their graduations, and also at their funerals. They bail them out of jail, teach them to cook, and to clean house

They are always there, except for the really bad ones, that I will not bother to include.

But what is the true roles of fathers? Some say they are the same as moms. Is that really true, or are our parents roles based on gender? Are kids who were brought up by their mother only at a disadvantage? What about those who were brought up by their fathers only?

Inquiring minds want to know.

RE: What do you expect from a relationship ?

Therein lies the issue, hon. As you said "Love is the most important thing"

However I did not want to get into the buzzword "love" in my first post. Some people love their pets, their assets, and their gadgets more than how they love their significant other. You are indeed right: our mates are amazing, hence they wont be easy. Many times they are worth it, but still some give up.

At this point there is confusion: 'if you give up you are not worthy' can also me: 'if you give up you did not have what it takes.'

Alas, stats have shown that it is usually the woman who initiates divorces. Many women have good reasons for initiating divorces, one of which, I suppose, is the alimony.

I am sure this does not mean that men who initiates divorces had an evil wife.

RE: What do you expect from a relationship ?

Ahem..and I quote:

Love is the most important thing....if hes amazing, he wont be easy. if hes easy he wont be amazing, if hes worth it you wont give up, if you give up your not worthy

RE: Children, how many would you take under your wings in a new relationship?

I would take one small one. But then again, I want to get rid of the ones i have.

RE: The Secret to Attracting a Man

I thought it was to make sure he gets splashed when cars drive through puddles on that size of the road. But then again we so love a woman who makes us believe we are her knight and protector.

RE: Who is single ?

RE: SHAVED...

So I have been told.

OP: I think this is an appropriate question to ask before the third date. You cannot leave such an important issue to chance.

Living together

Despite what the world will say about roles, there are some things that women are expected to do. I have no idea how a woman does it, but they should have some knowledge of what to do once they have children. Now is that learnt or is it instinctive. I think it is learnt.

RE: This is for women!!!

Whenever I meet a woman I always propose first, knowing she will say no. That way she will know I am really sincere.

Living together

Do you not mean 'My sons would be so upset to learn that THEY DO NOT HAVE TO cook, clean and do basic house maintenance....

Living together

Well I do try to get my daughter to learn the roles of a woman, but her mom thinks she should just relax while she (or me?) do all the work. Pity the poor guy who gets her hand. He better know how to cook and clean, etc. But before you ladies jump on me, in this country a woman's word is law and I dont want to end up in jail!

Welcome to Canada. Anything to declare?

Living together

Well you mentioned a few things about the relationship that you did not like. I am just wondering if there were any discussion on these issues before the plug was pulled.

Living together

Don't tell me you did not try to counsel him or give a few hints first. I mean us men do have a brain and we know how to use it.

Living together

I guess sometimes you have to really ask yourself: Can I really accept who she is or do I trade her in?

If we only had one chance of a mate (like swans?) would we really learn to live with all the warts in another person or would we decide to live alone?

RE: All your life in-love

Ok. Ok. Lets make a list of those pioneers who we know have done this.

Er...

In a minute..someone will come to mind...

Living together

To love and to cherish. To ACCEPT and to ACCEPT till death do you part?

Living together

Living together

My mom mad me do it.

Living together

True. True. I am not trying to be negative, but we should accept, expect a lot of crap when we decide to live with someone. I mean, their crap do smell when they go to the loo and their breath smells in the morinigs. But what if they usually forget to brush their teeth or to flush the toilet often? I am not sure if those are deal breakers but if they dont expect those things to bug their significant other then I am Donald Duck.

And ladies have mercy on me... I am just a man who does manly stuff.

Living together

I think i just used the work overlook instead of don't. What I meant is that we may sometimes accept a certain behaviour from, say one child, but not the other. Or to put it bluntly, we may accept one type of behaviour from a child but not from a spouse?

Living together

What I find frustrating is when we accept bad behaviour from one person but will overlook the same behaviour in another.

RE: OUCH !

I hear that eating the seeds is good. The seeds are sold locally but the greens are illegal. What?

RE: What colour hair typie would your date have to have

I thought you had to have a head to give head.