This has always been my view, and probably why I'm still single. I'm just not the jealous type. If he really wants to stay out drinking til 3am, just don't wake me up when you get back. Expecting someone to stop doing something they love (whether good or bad) is expecting them to change. And my Grandma always said the only time you can change a man is when you change his diapers.
Depends on the severity and how well he kept it under control. If he constantly needed monitoring that he was taking his meds, then that might be too much.
I don't see it ever becoming a problem since I know I'll leave the site eventually. I never stay on one site too long, usually a year, then get bored and disappear.
So true, I agree. I learned this myself yesterday. What I thought was allergies turned out to be a contact lens that had split in the middle cause I'd been wearing them a bit longer than you're supposed to. Ended up scratching the first layer of cells off the middle of the cornea, and while I'm lucky the damage is probably not permanent, now I have to go back to wearing glasses for a few weeks (which I HATE) and take antibiotic eyedrops every hour. Plus my vision is funked up. Not fun. Now when I do get contacts again, I'll make sure to follow the directions exactly.
But there's a difference between having a horde of pets and being asked to reduce if the multitude of them seriously creates a problem, and asking someone to get rid of their sole (or 2 or 3) beloved family pet(s).
If I had 10 cats running around, and my SO asked me to reduce to a manageable amount, then I would consider, but would also be very strict about the households they go into. As I only have the one now (or even when it was 2), there's no way I would consider getting rid of her.
Seriously, my cat is my 4-legged daughter. I love her more than words could describe, even when she drives me crazy. Asking me to give her away would be equivalent to asking me to cut off a body part. I just couldn't do it, and any man who truly loved me would not ask.
Long answer - I think it's possible to become enamored with someone and to care about them very strongly. But most people need a face to face meeting in order to make it "real".
Being buried alive Swarms of insects (anthills, etc) Looking/Walking into large, totally dark spaces
Also, have a fear of falling, but that comes from when I drove my car off a cliff when I was 16.
and also of having my head submerged under water, but it's not so bad if I have something secure above water to hold onto and no one touches me. needless to say, I can't swim.
Only thing close is when I cracked my kneecap and top of the tibia from falling up a set of marble steps (no give there lol). But I managed to save the bowl of sweet & sour sauce I carrying.
RE: Whats in a Name!!!
I used to know a guy named Michael Michaels. Also had a teacher in high school, Mr. Perky. He wasn't.