aww, well it sucks you had to go through a rough time in your life just for them to notice you, but if you were already 135 pounds(which is thin) and they didnt notice you, then damn! theres no hope for me..lol..
eh, hard to say..pin strips can elongate a persons figure, and since I'm 5'3, it would be nice to look a little taller..lol..however, strips can also make a thicker girl look even thicker, so Im thinkin a solid color. I usually look pretty good in red, black, pink or brown..lol
Aww, well thank you doll, I appreciate that! you are gorgeous too, and those guys just don't know what their missin. see, we just have a little more flavor that's all! lol
aww...no, don't feel alone honey! I'm sorry. I was trying to answer what you said while I was posting replies to other comments. I appreciate what you have to say. and you are tiny..lol..im 5'3 too, it's fun to be short sometimes huh! it can suck also tho! lol, but I'm glad you like who you are!
oh yah, and see, the purpose of this thread wasn't so I could ask people what it wrong with me..lol. like I said, I like who I am, and if I decide to change, it will be only for myself, and nobody else. I am just curious why it's hard for a thicker girl to even just find a decent guy to talk to and maybe date around. That's all I really want, but I just keep getting scrubs, and I'm not saying I want to date the most handsome man in the world, but it'd be nice to have an attractive man come up to me instead of the thin girl next to me..ya know?
haha, girl me either. quite honestly I've never really been thin. I was a chunky little baby, and kinda chunky growin up, and then playing sports helped me slim down and get in shape, but Ive always been thick..and I'm sure it wouldn't hurt if I lost a couple of pounds, but quite honestly, I love being thick. It makes me feel cute, cuz I have nice curves and I feel good about myself. lol
yah, that makes sense. Since being thin is what so many people want to be, then men are looked down upon if they are with a thicker women. Got it. Still sucks though, if you like someone who cares what other people think.
lol, no I'm not looking for marriage, not right now! I do have experience, I have dated alot of guys, so I'm not saying I've never had a boyfriend or anything, and it isn't necessarily hard to go out one evening and meet a guy that is actually interested in me, I just see a lot of thicker or bigger women who are single and they are absolutely gorgeous, and it's like both good looking and not so good looking men just want the thinner women. And as I mentioned there is nothing wrong with thinner women, but us thicker women need love too! lol, so I'm just curious as to why so many men only go after the thin women. That's all.
Why Are There So Few Of You That Us Thicker Women? When I Say Thicker, By No Means Do I Mean Fat or Whatever, I Literally Mean Thick. I Have No Problem Meeting Guys and They Say I'm Pretty and Have A Great Personality, but They Just Want To Be My Friend. I Do Realize Everyone Has Their Own Personal Type or Standards Or Whatever, but I Know If I Was A Guy, I'd Want A Thicker Woman. Don't Get Me Wrong, There Is Nothing Wrong With Thin Women, but I Just Get Tired Of Seeing All These Guys Who Want To Be Just Friends, Dating These Little Itty Bitty Girls. I Can Also Understand A Guy Wanting A Girl Who Is In Shape and Athletic, but When Most Of Those Guys Say That, They Mean They Want A Thin Girl. Because I Am In Shape and Athletic, I Played Basketball and Softball All Through Middle School and High School, and I Am A Hip-Hop Dancer. So, I'm Not Tryin To Start Any Arguements With Anyone, I'm Really Just Curious Why So Many Men Only Want Small Girls.
Haha..Isn't That The Truth..So Many Queens, and All The Good Kings Are Dating Each Other! lol. Good Luck Finding Your King Hugz n Kisses! ;) He'll Be A Lucky Guy!
Sounds Pretty Good..Although, Just To Show That Her Opionion And Wants Matter, While At Dinner Maybe Ask Her What She Would Like To Do Next. Maybe You All Could Do Something Fun That Neither Of You Have Done. I Know I'd Be Flattered If The Guy Asked Me What I Wanted To Do, because My Idea Of The First Date Isn't What Most Peoples Is. Yah Sure, Dinner and A Movie or Whatever Are Nice, but I Want A Fun Filled Date. Im Talking Going To An Arcade or Paintball Tag or Just Something Fun and Random Like That. You Get To See Someones Real Personality During Times Like Those. Good Luck Though, I'm Sure It Will Be Great! :D
Ok, Science Is In Fact Being Constantly Proved Wrong. Sure, There Are Some Things That Remain The Same, but Things Are Still Being Proved Wrong!
If Anyone Is Surrending To Ignorance, It Is You. Sure Science Does Explain Some Things, but It Sure As Hell Doesn't Explain Everything. For Example: Back In 2005, A Little 12 Year Old Girl In Bita Genet Escaped From These Men That Went Through Her Village and Were Beating and Raping and Trying To Force The Young Girls To Marry Them. As I Mentioned She Escaped, and When The Police Found Her, She Was Being Protected By Three Lions. As Soon As The Police Arrived, The Lions Went Back Into The Forest. She Had Been Guarded By The Lions For About Half A Day. When They Captured The Men, They Said The Lions Had Scared Them Off. Now Of Course Scientists Think They Have A Say In Everything, So They Explained That The Reason The Lions Did Not Attack The Little Girl, Was Because The Little Girl's Cry Probably Sounded Like A Lion Cub Crying. Give Me A Break! That May Have Been Possible, but Lions Are Not Dumb Animals. They Would Have Been Able To See and Smell The Difference In The Little Girl and A Cub. GOD Sent Those Lions To Protect Her!
I Will Be The First One To Admit That Evolution Exists. However, If We Supposedly Came From Primates, Then Why Are They Not Extinct? And What Is This Common Ancestor That We Share? And Why Have We Not Evolved Into Something Else By Now? Explain That To Me.
For Your Information Evolution Can Not Be Proved 100% In Everything, and Science Can NOT Prove That GOD Doesn't Exist.
As Far As What MikeHD Said About What He Experienced With Jesus, You Have No Idea What He Felt or Went Through. So Therefore, You Can't Sit Here and Say It's The Same Thing Other People Have Felt.
I Have Had My Doubts About God Before, but They Only Lasted A Moment Before I Realized I Have No Reason To Doubt Him. I Myself Have Gone Through Experiences(Yah, That's Plural) With God. I Know I Am A Sinner, but I Also Know That I Am Truly Sorry For The Wrong Things I Do, and I Am Forgiven and Will Go To Heaven When I Die. and Ya Know, Personally, I'd Rather Go Through Life Believing In God, Just To Find Out When I Die, That He Isn't Real, Than Going Through Life Not Believing In Him, Just To Die and Find Out He Is. Fortunately For You, God Does Love You and Does Watch Over You. Unfortunately So Does The Devil, and He Has A Hold On You. I Hope For Your Sake That You Will Someday Realize That God Is Real, and Find Your Faith Before It's Too Late.
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awww..lol, sorry