Being in love and "look around" do not mix. That is cheating on your self. That is a "in love" made-believe and you would most probably not really be in love at all.
Other than that, it needs probably to be officially posted in the event category with some facilities activated. Then, if just one shows up, it is still a meet up
RE: Ghost
The "Euro Asian Council for Standardization, Metrology and Certification"Gost is the Russian (CIS) standards of ISO.
Not creepy perhaps, but I have seen it and I believe in it