Now you really opened me up to talk, maybe not a good thing. I am a person who likes to give to the point of doing without. Here is my dilemma, need help with this one. As you know I have stated I take relationships very seriuosly. The man that I was with for 2 years decided I was no longer needed. Iwas hurt but have moved on. The thing is, he had nothing when I moved in and when I left I left many things besides taking responsibility for most of the debts which were not many. Now my kids and family are on me for being a doormat and letting people use me. This is not the first time they have accused me of this. Is it wrong to care about someone so much that you just want them to have a few things that otherwise they will never have? I personally think there is no wrong in what I did.
Thank You HJ, Very good thread. I am in my "BLUE" funk today. Not sure why, just know it does happen on occasion. Can't even get into reading a good book or writing more in my personal Journey file. Need a hug and a smile. Anyone out there have a few they can spare.
What a wonderful thing to do HJ. But don't feel even the least bit guilty my friend. They will still be fed and with your Mom's health not the best you need to spend as much time with her as possible. As you probably know from some of my posts my Mom passed 5 years ago this month while I was holding her hand. I would give anything to have her here now but cherish the memories. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving and even though she does not know me plase give your Mom a hug for me. Take Care my friend.
Good idea HJ, Damn just remembered I'm not married. Can you phone my kids and tell them I am moving to Arizona on Thanksgiving day!!! ( JK) One way to get them all here I guarantee.
The first peace, which is the most important, is that which comes within the souls of the people when they realize their relationships, their oneness with the universe and all it's power, and when they realize that at the center of the universe dwells Wakan- Taka( The Great Spirit) and that this center is really everywhere, it is within each of us. This is the real peace and the others are but reflections of this. The second peace is that which is made between two individuals, and the third peace is that which is made between two nations. But above all you should understand that there can never be peace between nations until there is known that true peace, which, as I have often said, is within the souls of man.
Black Elk, (Oglala Sioux & Spiritual Leader) 1863- 1950
Sorry Dru, Did not mean to disappear so quickly but sometimes things happen that we don't expect and that is how my day has been going so far. Now I get to set and relax for awhile so here I am. Yes that was quite early, but sometimes just unable to sleep. Have more tests going on so will let you know how things progress. Thanks for asking.
Good for you g/f. I will keep you in my thoughts as each day passes. How did your week-end go when that gentleman came to visit? After another cup or 2 of coffee I will be fun. Have been up for about 4 hours now.
RE: Think of 3 Cool Things About Yourself, What Are They?
I believe in " FOREVER" in a relationshipI enjoy laughing or smiling each day as it is good for the soul.
TOPPING THE LIST:
My grand - kids are my precious gifts from the Creator