You are so mistaken totally off with that commnent. I spent $15,000. and had two horrendously painful surgeries to get rid of mine or make them smaller actually. I never thought I was God's gift. I have noticed that when I look good I'm considered smart and funny AND oddly a nice person and when I don't or if I gain weight I'm none of those things and I don't exist for men. F**k that s*it. And f**k them.
OC is mostly Republican and far more conservative than LA. Far more Caucasians in OC than LA. Wealthier. Totally different vibe. Prettier but boring. IMO.
Nope. Men, just men don't care about much else. Personality and intelligence turn me on. Sense of humor not optional, a little strong on the outside and gentle on the inside and I've found all that in men in general. Can't say one racial/ethnic group is like that and the others aren't. I also run the other way when a man tells me he only dates one race/type of woman-big turn off.
True but sometimes it takes a little while to figure it out. And some people are quicker than others. There was someone on here I liked. Tried to call him a million times and his kids and brother kept getting on the phone and telling me he wasn't home. Even late at night. So a couple of minutes after the last time I called I had a male friend call him and he called him right back. Duh. It finally dawned on me he didn't want to talk to me but the weird thing was that he said he did. Way too many games and drama for me. I felt really embarassed and stupid but at least I didn't keep playing. I'm getting faster as I get older not slower...
I don't think people are deliberately different. I think they come off in writing that way. For example I like to write and I like to write [what I consider] funny stuff, I don't want to get too deep. I have that all day in my work and my life. Plus I have an audience-some people don't get me and they get mad but way more often I get emails telling me that what I wrote made them laugh. Other people like to be deep and philosophical on here they like to post things on religion, spirituality and guide people and people respond well to that. Others like to impart information, some people like to be very supportive give therapy and advice but these are only one aspect of people's personalities and usually one very small one. I don't think people are hiding anything although again in my case I am careful what I post. School districts can and do fire teachers for not holding to the morals of the community-I remember when I read about that in a law and ethics class I took for my MA and I called my father in shock and asked if it was true and he said absolutely. I've seen it happen.
Actually I've spoken on the phone with several people from the forums both male and female and not a single one of them was anything at all the way they seem on the forums. If you lined them up and asked me to guess who the person I was talking to was from the forum I would never have known. Almost the opposite of their online personas. I tend to be very sarcastic on here and I think in real life I'm far less and I'm a good listener. I don't think I'm much like I appear online. I deliberately don't reveal too much because of my job.
I have a date for New Year's just because I'm tired of not going out and he lives nearby but I'm not really excited about it. I'm starting to go out again with locals but my hopes aren't high.
Because even though I live in the place I grew up and should be comfortable with local culture there are so many things I don't like and since I can't move I thought maybe I'd meet some people with different values online. You've lived here you have some idea what I'm talking about.
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But no prods with out prodding first it seems.
<-You in SF in March. 
But then I only want the ones who get me.
RE: Randomly Post The First Thing That Pops Into Your Head Thread
You are so mistaken totally off with that commnent. I spent $15,000. and had two horrendously painful surgeries to get rid of mine or make them smaller actually. I never thought I was God's gift. I have noticed that when I look good I'm considered smart and funny AND oddly a nice person and when I don't or if I gain weight I'm none of those things and I don't exist for men. F**k that s*it. And f**k them.