The problem is that if I am interested in someone I check his profile to see if he's single or not, I don't know how else to do it. You have been very clear that you met someone and are not looking anymore, the person you are seeing has also been very clear on the forums that he has found you. This person did not do that either on the forums or in his profile. I am not sure how else for a woman to know he was unavailable and why should she have to ask him-he should make it clear. The whole thing was confusing and hurtful. But he wasn't right for me or we would have felt the same way about the entire situation.
Thank you. Sorry my computer is going crazy last night and today buzzing and adding extra spaces. I think it's going on strike....I will give it a rest and go eat lunch....
His profile is deleted as of now and I can't bring myself to answer his calls. I was very clear about it though and it happened more than once so I feel ok about my side of it. I'm sure he'll be back on here at some point that was his problem-seems more addicted to the site than finding someone.
I met someone on here that I really really fell for and he still spent all hours on here, he also didn't put in his profile that he wasn't looking anymore (I did) and that hurt so I am not talking with him now. I think if someone meets someone on here and they want to stay they should be clear about it in their profile that they are no longer looking and they should be clear about not flirting with anyone on here. Lots of people stay and behave very nicely just participating in threads and that's fine with me. What happened to me was not fine....
Am reading my 2nd book by Natsuo Kirino. I think she only has 3 in English thus far. I love her writing and her insights into Japanese culture. It's exactly as good as her last. I think several of her books have been turned into films.
I tend to go for intelligence (I picked that one in the poll yesterday) Doesn't have to be formally educated just intelligent. I love smart men who are quick witted.
She sounds like an excellent mother. I have no idea why you'd write something like that. If someone has kids I pay close attention to how they feel about being a parent and how they've raised their children. That tells me pretty much everything about them as a person I need to know.
Since you can't discipline someone else's kids it would depend entirely on the kids. How they feel about the new person and how they behave. It's a very difficult situation and one I haven't had much luck with. I've been on both sides since my dad remarried when I was 21 and my youngest brother was 16.
Taught 10 years of 2nd and 6 years of K-1, SRLDP, and 3rd. Last 4 years have been doing short and long term. Have an offer to return next year and I'm really torn-need the money but I like what I'm doing now.
RE: why are these people not "taken" or in a" relationship"?
I think he has too many options is why.