Negating the dudes comment above me I think that maybe I could offer maybe a more reasonable reason. Maybe the guy was too shy or thought he maybe too presumptuous to ask for your #..
You know, many years ago I had gauged trust for someone on how they would react in situations of life or death. Now I believe I still look for that same type of commitment. I see what few current friends I have are just those type of people, but, they are few! Is that too high of an expectation to ask in a relationship? There is nothing like the honor of someone who can walk on that line with you..... Don't you agree?
OK! Seeing that there are only going to be short resposes let me ask a simple question... Is it wrong of me to wait for someone to prove that they are truly interested by them taking the initiative to really get inside me and show genuine interest? I feel that that puts me in a quandary though. What do you think?
What I mean is, are you willing to suffice the moment in fear that you could be alone in life by latching on to someone? Just the other day I had an email in response from someone very sweet. They basically seem to be genuinely concerned about my well being and wondering if someone had crossed my path and knocked my socks off yet. I replied to her telling her that no, nobody had knocked my socks off and to be honest I’m not sure if there is anyone that could. Maybe I feel that way in fear of possible repeating the past. Or maybe I simply feel that way because for once in a very long time I’m actually enjoying life. Well, she sent an email telling me that I should open my eyes and let someone in so that I won’t be alone. What is alone? Is it not having someone by your side? Hey! I had someone by my side for 16 years and I never felt more alone. Yes! I would love to have someone by my side so that I could share my days events as well as listen to theirs. I would love to wakeup and great the day with someone that wants to be with me as I do them. But, for some reason the feelings of the want is not there. At times I think it is and most times it is not. Maybe if I could open my mind more and see that there is a lot of good intentions in some I maybe could disperse those feelings of fear. I think down deep in my subconscious I’m hoping for someone to take the time to reach deep inside me and crack this egg and prove to me that there is someone who is wanting to earn my trust. I find that many people are really not willing to go the extra mile for a good relationship, which brings up the question… Are you just willing just suffice for a relationship?
Tab, it was not a " WHAM BAM" it was just a gotz to go see ya later thing. Well at least the kind Dr. record stopped skipping by playing the same message over and over again.
For me online dating is just a way to cross the confines of your physical location. Does it mean that you’ll find the love of your life??? Reserving my opinion till that time…. I think it is a way to meet other people however, I fell that people base too much of an opinion on misunderstood dialogue, picture, profile content, etc…
First of all, thanks for the warm reception peeps! More importantly, yeah I guess I did miss y’all! So what’s everyone been up to? Well I will be leaving till this evening. There’s a lot of open road and some friends and I want to go rip them up with our bikes. And they are bagin on the door now.... Later.....
Just wanted to say to those who I call friends and others as well. Geee, this CS is like a Soap, you can walk away for a week and come back and it's like you missed nothing...
Maybe I did go round and round. Hey, I was riding by bike till about 10pm last night and then drank a few to many afterwards. Coffee hasn't done its job yet......
I remember watching this little documentary on Discovery where a Private Investigator was hired to document someone’s husband at someone else wedding. Well, as this PI was taking pictures he noticed the bride going out in the hallway with the best man at the reception and giving him a BJ. I would say the whole, “Love honor and obey” thing has a slightly different meaning to that bride.
But seriously, on the whole maturity issue, isn’t the view of someone’s maturity relative to one views of what maturity level one thinks someone should be on?
Yeah, people that lie about their age is bad, bad people. Look at me, not a day over 25. Been that way for about 23 years. But some would say that I’m 18 and holding…..
PS After thinking about the phobia for her, I'm afraid that I would have to be on top because I wouldn't want her to have it in fear of her crushing me.
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RE: who wants a beer
Send a beer my way if you don't mind.