I hardly ever come to the site anymore, no disrespect to people who are here alot, but for me its just not the same since so many people i got on with have left
Have to admit took me ages to get over my last relationship, although at the time I thought I was ready to see other people found out I clearly wasnt, to trust again and look at my own shortcomings was bloody hard
Unbelievable !!! To some of us Epi is not a atranger and has been part of the forum community here for a long time, if he gets some shred of comfort posting this thread, what the hell has it to do with you???
I lost my Grandaughter, and the support I got from friends here helped to give me the strength to get through it.
Epi, I am so sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my thoughts.
We do?? I think you will find that people who live in countries were there are threats of earthquakes etc, or are starving because of lack of water/resources for them to grow crops, or there country is torn apart by war, hardly have the opportunity to up sticks and leave the country. jmo
You know absolutly nothing about my past relationships, but I will tell you that I was married to someone for 16yrs who was unfaithful several times. So I have personal experience of the pain you talk of.
In the end I walked away from it, and took time to learn from it and find out who I was before entering into another relationship.
Carry on feeling sorry for yourself and you will destroy and chance of happiness in the future
I'm not judging you but there are always 2 sides and she is not here to give hers.
Throughout life we all suffer at some point over a failed relationship, but we have a choice, to learn from it and move on , or be a victim end up bitter, and let it destroy future relationships.
Its so easy to blame the other person when things go wrong, but often we need to look at ourselves, and be honest about what we see and learn from it. Thats hard to do.
I had a 4yr relationship with someone from a different race, even relocated to his country, and the biased came from his family they would not even meet me.
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Many people end up single parents, normally through circumstance rather than choice.
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Happiness comes from within yourself and life is what you make of it.