Think you will find Counselling is about being given the opportunity to talk to some one that is not involved, they listen and encourage you to look at ways to deal with a situation, not tell you what you should do or what they would do.
Why not just start a Bonfire put her on top and burn her???
The thread wasn't about the right or wrongs of it and I don't think anyone's saying its a good thing to do.
We all react differently and the young man in this case has to make his own decision, not listen to what others who are not in his situation say they would do.
He is probably as confused as hell right now and hurting, not a good time to hear what others would, being supportive and encouraging him to work thro his own feelings may be more beneficial to him long term.
It's hardly poking your nose in when this person is constantly coming to you with this problem,talking about it and asking what he should do.[/quote It's a decision he needs to come to himself with unbiased support, not one where he is being told what he should do because thats what you think he should do.
Imagine if he does what others tell him what he should do and then regrets it?
I agree and nice to see you back, not really anyone else's business to poke their nose in, It's between the people involved and real friends who want to be supportive would be there regardless of the decision made. jmo
Think ir depends on what your looking for long term, as we all change as we get older ad what we want chaanges as well.
I married someone 25 yrs older than me, for 16 yrs was fine and we had 2 children.
Once they were older enough I wanted to go back to work and pick up my career, I also wanted to kick start my social life again, he had reached they age where he was happy to sit home, as he had already done all thee things in ife I know wanted to do.
I kind of feel that when in the West we witness media footage of other nations celebrating a death of an enemy, we are jumping up and down about it and calling them barbaric.
But seems ok when the West do exactly the same thing??? Kind of hypocritical me thinks.
Sorry but to me still nit picking. It was their Wedding done the way THEY wanted it, so to me to pull it to pieces like you have done is just silly. It was their day not a Wedding advisors, if she liked her flowers the way they were great! her choice.
As for Diane both sons have dealt with it in their own way anf grown into young men to be proud of as i'm sure their Mother would have wanted.
If they had grown up full of hate and blame what kind of men would they have turned into???
I really don't think anyone has the right to tell them what they should or should not have done.
Why on earth is it so bad her sister held the hands of the smallest Bridesmaids?????. To me it gave warm element and the children behaved perfectly.The fact is this wedding broke down alot of British Royal Protocol, and was beautifully managed.
RE: have you learnt anything reading the forum posts
I wastold when growing up never get into a discussion about politics and religion, now I know why