This was a great question. I am pleased that people responded. I think some of the answers are great. What happens when your the kinda of person who only knows how to do things 1000%? That you put all your energy into 1 person or thing until your totally comfortable with it and then move onto the next thing. Sometimes i think it can be miss read. As being pushy or over zealous but really u just want to give/show all your best parts and energy to that person...then if it works out, they truly know what to expect from you...if it doesnt, u walk away knowing you did everything you could to give it a chance. Anyone else share that passion problem of being over zealous about everything in life?
Wow what a nice overwhelming response. I appreciate it from all of you. Yes i have thick enough skin to handle just about anything you can throw at me. Yes i have an opinion on everything, its usually the opposite of the current trend. No im not afraid to voice it, and usually dont care if you dont like it or agree with it. Yes ive been know to make friend and enemies but usually i just make people think:) Thanks for welcoming me to the site and i look forward to getting to know you all better
My name is Rob and im new here. Mostly a virgin to dating sites as i have not had a need to date in a very long time. But time marches on and things in life change. Now im here. What to do next??
Just a lazy 2 cents but some people have a different viewpoint because of life experiences that form an opinion that may be right or may be wrong. Perception is reality for most and accepting something contrary to their own perception can be very difficult. I do find it difficult, myself, to take anothers viewpoint and try to stand in their shoes and see, maybe they are not attacking or disrespecting my opinion, just strongly voicing their own. Who is right? Who is wrong? Is anyone right or wrong? Or are we all a bit defensive when something is said against us.
Sorry had to throw in my 2 cents worth. I know im new and prolly wont stay long but life has taught me alot and reaction is a tough one to master. Good luck
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RE: How quickly do you move w/ a new relationship?
This was a great question. I am pleased that people responded. I think some of the answers are great. What happens when your the kinda of person who only knows how to do things 1000%? That you put all your energy into 1 person or thing until your totally comfortable with it and then move onto the next thing. Sometimes i think it can be miss read. As being pushy or over zealous but really u just want to give/show all your best parts and energy to that person...then if it works out, they truly know what to expect from you...if it doesnt, u walk away knowing you did everything you could to give it a chance. Anyone else share that passion problem of being over zealous about everything in life?