I will never tell someone who believes in something that it does not exist just because I don't believe in it... But, I will say that a lot of people use things like this to "help" them believe things. It gives them hope, and really the bottom line is however you can get hope, go for it!
I pick my toenails, and however many I get off, I divide that number by 3.1415, then I go to my basement and turn on my television, and whatever show comes on, I count the 44th word spoken (number of letters in word), then add those two numbers, then obviously, I divide them by 2 (wouldn't you?), then that number leads me to a deck of cards and I take that card after shuffling a while. Whatever that card is, is fed to my personal astronomer or I forget, maybe astrologer, then she tells me my fortune. Works every single time!
Hey Drummer. Keep busy with friends or hobbies. There is no easy way around the lonliness. I remember playing golf with buddies and loving every minute of it, then when i left, they all went home to wives and I came home to nothing hehe. It was very hard. But keep active on sites like this one, get involved. Even talking to someone (female, I presume) helps. Even just a friend or someone who is going through the same thing. You do not have to find the perfect person out there right now, just find nice people who are in similiar spots. Good luck mate!
You can also find them, right? Search for people and check out their profiles and send them a flower or an email... If you have a profile and photo they are more likely going to reply. Also, its good to have some friendships and get use to talking with people as well. Sometimes it helps you if you help talk to others... complex, simple, crazy.....
great news Kitty. This is a big step for you it sounds and I am positive it is going to go well. You have a great smile and sound really nice, who can possibly resist you!!!!!!
Wow, a woman after my heart... Manheim Steamroller is awesome. Also, someone mentioned the Moody Blues (right on). I agree quiet-type or mellow-type, cool music can add to the the whole experience.
On the other hand, no music and just breathing can also be great. One reason I asked this question was to see if some liked music and if some didn't...
It is a good question.... I am not sure if there is one soul mate out there who is the "perfect" fit - everything you have ever wanted....
However as we grow older and meet all kinds of people, I believe there is NOT just ONE person who can satisfy everything, especially in this whacko world...
Best you can do is try to work on yourself and hope someone comes along and ADDS to your life and makes you happy :)
Being confused is the worst part here.. Just pick one you are comfy with and do it.... Some people like to write emails, some are chatty and some like the phone... I personally love the phone but I think you might need to send a couple emails back and forth and make sure you have a positive connection, then ask for a phone number and go for it....
ROFL now this has to be funny... I must be one of those guys lol... I contacted you and asked to talk to you and you said you only do emails ROFL. I guess I feel like a dork now
Be who YOU are, always. If you are the nice guy, don't try to change. First off, you will never pull it off, and secondly many girls get sick of the tough, macho guy and want someone who will treat them nice. Just be you, baby... You da man!
Good to know. Just report them and I believe even this site warns us against scammers... One other thing... be really careful if someone lures you over to like yahoo IM and tries to tell you to run some admin page to see them in a video cam. It usually is a scam as well, and some hackers can actually dump a program onto your PC - usually called "dropper." Be careful out there...
Well first off, I really don't think people can get beyond taking things personally, its just a part of life... However, with that being said, and with some of the things mentioned in your post...
1. We all learn to adapt. The more you try to meet new people, the better your confidence gets, even if you get rejected 9/10 times. Eventually you learn to care *less* and less.. it just becomes something you get use to.
2. One reason why people get hurt sometimes is because they make the other person out to be something bigger than they really are... That beautiful girl is too good for you, right? Therefore, instantly you lose confidence. Everyone is the same.
3. Watch this clip and then you will have more confidence lol..
Talking on the phone first is a must, then I think going to a casual coffee place is great for a nice meeting. It is easy for both people and also easy to escape :)
but but... I do have a really big California King and a 50 incher (thats a 50 incher TV btw) and down pillows so in taking all the content in from this thread, we could hit coffee, head to mums house, travel to PA, do the bump and grind in the cemetery for a few minutes, then take a charter jet back to my house and go to bed!
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RE: DO YOU BELIVE IN TAROT CARDS?
I will never tell someone who believes in something that it does not exist just because I don't believe in it... But, I will say that a lot of people use things like this to "help" them believe things. It gives them hope, and really the bottom line is however you can get hope, go for it!I pick my toenails, and however many I get off, I divide that number by 3.1415, then I go to my basement and turn on my television, and whatever show comes on, I count the 44th word spoken (number of letters in word), then add those two numbers, then obviously, I divide them by 2 (wouldn't you?), then that number leads me to a deck of cards and I take that card after shuffling a while. Whatever that card is, is fed to my personal astronomer or I forget, maybe astrologer, then she tells me my fortune. Works every single time!