"Spunky you made it." livinglarge: And see how they all look at you guy's now, It sure look's good on you --tell them take a long hard look Any Green Eye monsters yet?
Ok Jenny I'm up all eye's and ear's -- What did you say ok ok one second let me get my glasses ...can't hear without them .. you know that !!! Ok sleep someday ....Not now huh did I get it right Jenny. Dear God I Hope So.
DRUIDESS6308-- do you mean "involved again" dose this to you?? And ship you're no help -- this is scary --if you hear screaming please it's me call the patty wagon. Serious help is needed.
Not necessarily--Insurance bills and other forms of prepration is expected, It's part of life--But waitiing for a phone call from a guy or an IM or waiting for that special someone should be in the back of you head. But today is all you ever or will ever have -- what I do --and I could only tell you about me --- I relax -shower-eat something delicous-tell myself I AM THE MOST BEAUTYFUL LADY I KNOW-turn the music according to what I am in the mood for-or pick a book that will take me where I want to go and purposily conciously enjoy what I choose. -- Yes my friends tell's me I am strange but I have more fun in my life than they do.
Worring , Not worring , What difference dose it make can you change any of it? If you can what is stopping you ----If you can't relax and enjoy the moment. But that's me. Hi Hollandgirl
Being able to smile at the world and at yourself make's everything's easy. --- mylifewithi-- darlin you scard me hahahah--but I'd like to say this , Picking a fight with your mate husband or guy, for the right reason is good because the making up is good fun. Never fight for real issues just think of the good things--there's always not so good in life, learn to make it not a part of you.
I am an easy going person--and I often wonder why my sister's make life impossiable. For instance when their husband's try to give a very expensive piece of jewelry -- and she tell him she didn't want that, he wanted a car instead. (The one she's got is only one year old.)
Simply say what you want -- A very good piece of advice from my dad-- "If and when you get married make sure you take care of your husband --if you don't someone else will -- Tell you husband what you're thinking or what you want -- remember he is not a mind reader neither are you, so make sure you listen to him, hear what he is saying. Don't assume he know's"" I think that is one of the biggest mistake we make as a couple we assume.
When a person decide to get married or live together or even have kid's -- the dynamic of the realtionship changes, and the responsibility is great--so be open like when you're making a will--spell out your feelings -- the way you feel --make very sure your partner hears what is being said--and you hear what he is saying -- if you do this life becomes easy .
We spend so much time fighting blaming we loose the gift of love. Lady's you can't change him and will never be able to--guy's you can't change her unless you marry a child bride. Respect, Acceptence, Compromise, All the while smiling, You can't beat that.
Being open honest and also being able to count on your partner, without a thought of how why when where --- being able to make a moment's desication and know he or she will stand with you good or bad.
The give and take must be equally shared. reciprocate or initiate, if it,s not equal then you really don't have that so cold staying power.
RE: Have you been confronted, had to live with, class distinctions at any time of your life?
"Spunky you made it."livinglarge: And see how they all look at you guy's now, It sure look's good on you --tell them take a long hard look Any Green Eye monsters yet?