solitare Forum Posts (4,041)

RE: are all men weird

Weirdness is a positive trait, be it altitude, attitude,outlook on Life or what have-you. No one in their 'right mind' wants 'normal'. Being normal is like being a sheep; "Oh Lord, deliver us from normal!' Be weird and enjoy life!

RE: CHERRIES PIE

Just be happy with having and eating your cake...

RE: How long have you been a CS member?

I think that we should get a 'stimulus package' from CS...
what's the ol' song from The Pastels, I think...Been So Long...

RE: Do woman now days seek younger men??

Perhaps your question and proposed answer should apply generally to North America, as in Europe and most of the rest of the world, it is nothing new; it has always been so. The fact that 'older' North American women are now seeking 'younger' males is a positive sign of maturity in their collective outlooks regarding the advantages of what this offers to them in the various 'affairs of their lives' as it were... It is a social balance of the very natural state of older men being interested in younger women; age being what any particular society, as well as what any individual finds socially acceptable and is comfortable with it.
The advantages for women are and would certainly be filled with as much satisfaction, happiness/sorrow/joys as with the older males; each 'need' being relative, of course. There are also those who will not be 'comfortable' with nor understand it. Time, circumstances and experience change and affect all of us in varying degrees. The advantages for the 'younger' paramour is quite unlimited and having grown up in a culture that has always regarded this as quite normal, and can only applaud the 'older' women for finally refusing to be without a 'younger' companion/lover/husband; whatever...Live and Love for as long as you possibly can!!

RE: What was the most touching movie u have ever seen?

Thread: What was the most touching movie u have ever seen?

Category: Movies, TV, Theater



Easy; Hobo With A Shotgun!!!!

RE: What is love?

Love is not lust.
Love is having money enough to keep from being both alone and lonely.
One starts to learn that in High school and with every human being you form or wish to form a relationship with, only re-enforces that hard truth.

RE: Women...forget the ..ks, go for the bucks....

From all that I have observed in life the sentiment is ,unfortunately, both naive and totally unrealistic. The cynical side of me learned many years ago that Love is spelled: m o n e y.
Surely that concept is the least 'romantic' aspect of human lives...

RE: How did you meet?

Through the singles/ companion ads in a major newspaper.
New city; wanted to go to concerts, operas, try various restaurants, so I made contact with one one woman who had advertised for the same thing as all her friends were always too busy. On the way to meet. she began to run late and slipped on stairs and banged her head on a bannister post...she arrived but rather bruised. Fortunately we were only a block from a large downtown hospital, so I took her there. After 4 or 5 hours out she came with a few stitches and groggy; put her in a cab and took her home, put her to bed and sat up with her TV. She woke the next day and we started enjoying each others company. About 8 or 9 months later we were married until she suddenly died suddenly...our luck ran out.

RE: 18-25 girls 26-32 women

All females are beautiful in their own fashion. It all depends upon your frame of mind/outlook/age and experiences. Most females, as most males have more than 1 or 2 dimensions. Yes, that is astounding! All depends on if you have also the time to really look...

RE: Do you feel safe meeting someone from the internet?

for my post as above.

RE: Liberal

None are Libertarian, for sure.

RE: Someone says or does something that makes you laugh

There seems to be an extreme shortage of traveling circuses in North America as virtually all women are looking for clowns..."to make me laugh"...ahhh, such is the frivolity of Bozosapiens...

RE: Do you feel safe meeting someone from the internet?

I've met several and most belonged in emergency psychiatric care.
Must be a lot of empty cells in various asylums that these people had escaped from....

RE: Do you think it`s o.k to jump to bed on first date,or...wait until you establish relationship first

One could always try jumping on a trampoline first, rather than a bed...

RE: I will not get involved with another person again

Did you mean the above literally or figuratively???

RE: Would you buy a book on psychopaths?

Absolutely Amazing!!!
(So does every State intelligence apparatus around the world. Who do you think trains the most assassins, the military or the intelligence services...duh....

RE: Soldier Blue

Amem to that. But as long as criminals become leaders of any country, there is guaranteed war. Possibly it may be best not to have any so called 'leaders'...

RE: Would you buy a book on psychopaths?

Why bother buying a book; just browse through the forums. Lots of them here...

RE: Are you afraid to get acquainted in the street?

IN the street? Get 'aquainted' with what, the motor traffic? No thanks; would prefer 'on the street'...

RE: "PET PEEVES"....Lets get real!!

It really needs to be spelled phonetically; this way it always looks as if it an illness or worse...
Love cerise and turquoise...my favourite colour is, without doubt, Technicolour!

RE: Red Flags

Not that bad; I have my two cats; enjoy your existential bliss, I do...

RE: all dressed up....

A Ralph Lauren Cashmere Loincloth with gold filigree and no where to go...

RE: DIVORCE Cake !!!

It was usually mothers that had the divorce parties and several had their kids at them complete with a Divorce Cake, balloons, party hats etc. After the kids went off to bed and only the adults partied on...all sorts of action shots were taken ...
It was rare that a father or ex husband felt like a divorce party...

RE: This may be disrespectfull./but the truth.

Do you mean all those Disney films and similar ones showing/ touting single mothers and fathers each with up to several kids each, meeting; falling hopelessly in love; their respective spoiled brats finally becoming best friends with each other and fully integrating as one huge 'typical American family' after their parents get married(with her in white), really did not work after all!!?? I'm shocked...all those nice happy cheerful films didn't work to convince people to imitate reel life!? Another illusion has fallen ...

RE: DIVORCE Cake !!!

We've all seen and heard of Wedding Photographers and Wedding Photo books. Years ago I tried to advertise the service of Divorce Photos with flyers on how to take Divorce photos at things like Divorce Parties...why not, Divorces are just as happy, jubilant occasions and most times a huge relief, so why not have photos of the actual divorce,(especially 'action shots' be the divorce a happy ending for both parties or one of raging acrimony...Divorces are a very important occasion(s) in our lives and deserve to be immortalized... And yes, I actually got several responses!

RE: Who is single ?

Poll Question: Who is single ?
Poller: postivethinker

one who lives alone
one who is unmarried
one who is divorced
one who feels aloness
all of above
non of above
others (pl comment)

I think one who feels aloness.dunno
EMOTICON LIMIT: 3 per post! Poll Comment:



Aloneness begins quite early in life...even in grade school...

RE: Why do men...

Very well put. To be understood by others, on other words, the first step is understanding ourselves.
The differences between how a person sees themselves and how others see you is not just a matter of simple egocentrism; we all have 'blind spots'. We change our self-conceptions when we see ourselves through the eyes of others, or some of us do, if we can.
How well we understand ourselves has a profound impact on our ability to navigate the social realms. In some ares, we know ourselves better than others do. But in other areas, we're so biased by our need to see ourselves in a good, in a positive light that we become strangers to ourselves. By soliciting feedback from others, we can usually learn more about ourselves and how we are coming off. Only by trying to understanding how we're seen can we make sure we're sending the 'right signals'. To be understood by others, in other words is definitely by understanding ourselves.
We seem to have 'bright spots''dark spots' and 'personal spots'., and most assuredly, 'blind spots'.
The most interesting are the latter two; 'personal spots' and 'blind spots', since they involve the discrepancies between how we see ourselves and how others see us; a not sometimes flattering image at all...

RE: Boys , You like the women

In a veil???
Ever see the TV show, I Dream Of Genie ??

RE: CS'ers own ART GALLERY

Oh how right you are. As my son says, the internet is full of pirates...especially art pirates.

RE: What tickles your film fancy? - Please share

Did you at least film all of what you did; sounds as if it has all the basics for a horror film; you in the woods, breaking things, pot,(drainage problems: code for drownings?); re-potting,aka burials; big buckets,aka coffins; alien pods growing bigger out there in the woods and the garden operated by your sister...
Will it be on U tube???