Swelling for a filling should be absolutely minimal and the fact that you have white gums indicates damaged tissue. You need to see your doctor IMMEDIATELY!
This is urgent. do not wait. I can't stress this enough. See a physician immediately.
There are several issues you may be encountering including nerve damage, but the biggest thing I suspect is that he did not properly sterilize his instruments with an autoclave or other device which means you could have a staff or other infection.
I am an ER physician, not a laymen telling you to see your physician immediately. If you do not have one, or cannot afford one, go to an emergency room immediately.
Maybe I will come up there and we can do some Christmas carols and I will make you my home made hot chocolate, sit down with a big mug, under a warm blanket.
We will never progress as a person until we quit waiting on external influences to improve us. If we keep waiting for someone else to pay for our college education, we will die without one. If we keep waiting for someone to offer us a job, we will never have one.
We must take responsibility for our own happiness and thereby realize that it is no one's responsibility to give us anything, it is ours to getter done!
having a profile picture of unwanted nakedness is an imposition. It wasn't at anyone's request, it was there, not only for the world to see, but specifically her to see when she checked to see her photo rating.
The guys obviously is getting his rawks off with this.
I changed my profile to mean I am not interested in anyone contacting me for a relationship because, well......I am already interested in someone at the moment.
If she ends up shooting me down, breaking my heart, stomping on my psyche, and otherwise flushing me down the proverbial toilet, I guess I will redo my profile
RE: I'm so sad....