Naw dear im pretty sure i dont love him... at all...otherwise i would , may be , give it a second chance.... but if theres no love...... doesnt worth da pain :)
Unfortunately , yes....he couldn't understand why me and my ex were so close....We are still He broke up with his gf at that time as well... same reason...she couldn't understand why is he so close to me
We don't even think abt being together or anything...theres no such a love between us...at all...just .. as i told ya before. ... we care abt eachother a lot ...as friends...
Anyways , seems that sooner or later we gonna stop seeing eachother bcoz noone else (his gf or my bfs) understand the situation.... awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww But its life :)
I have a theory here lol... when we broke up , we were still in love wiv eachother ...so may be that's the reason And our relationship was just great , till that day hahaha
But i think once a cheater , always a cheater so no way Id ever go back wiv him !!!
So yeah , the respect still remains and the good memories and well Im happy now and as far as I know so is he :) Chapter closed and all good :D
(im aware this is not usual anyways hehe but may happen'!) But yeah his gf doesnt understand neither did a guy i dated a while ago... blah blah.... life hey!!!
How can I prove I do exist...well im writting this ...hence i exist ...unless all this website and this post ur reading is a product of ur imagination!!!! ..... If so... go see a doc ...its called SCHIZOPHRENIA!!!!
Well who told you u need to accept atheist exist in order to they exist?
Lemmy try again , got a needle poking my hand OUtCHHHHHHH hurts ... Yes i do exist. Ive just proven da fact
Something weird and kinda cool happened 2 me here. I was engaged 2 years ago wiv a guy , he loved my daughter and bla bla ,we broke up (cheater) adn turned out to be hes if not the best , one of my best friends, we moved on after crying adn dealing with the painful break up bla bla
But he has been with me in my most difficult times and we are no more than just friends...we meet for lunch or dinner or coffee or anytime he knows im sick (or my daughter) he would come in a hurry to know we are ok... so nice from him. So yeah may be sometimes it works out to be friends after a paiunfull brak up
I dated a single dad myself when i was younger, and now im a single mom lol ,
ive been in both sides i guess... somethng happened 2 me wiv that lil kid... since i loved him i automatically loved his lil girl as well.... i felt like if she was so close to me , became part of my life and althought me and her dad we are not together no more , after manyyyyyyyyyyy years , we still have some contact and i still feel loads of affection for her
so yeah , may be harder for us single parents , but happens :)
that's why i said I GUESS....bcoz i dont know u right? and sounds reasonable...this site name its connectingsingles...sounds like a dating site to me...anyways...
im not lecturing u abt anything , just as u did ,i stated my own oppinion bcoz u were pointing out my age group...that's it
that's why i said I GUESS....bcoz i dont know u right? and sounds reasonable...this site name its connectingsingles...sounds like a dating site to me...anyways...
im not lecturing u abt anything , just as u did i stated my own oppinion bcoz u were pointing out my age group...that's it
Not always and not all of us...actually all my friends are my age group and NONE of us are interested on some older guy's money.-...
why would we? we are independant and free and we've got our profession....WE DONT NEED "to be taken care of financially."
U know what my age group is looking for???
And im talking abt descent good girls....not gold diggers tho,.... Let me remind u there are gold diggers in EVERY age group!!!!!
Well , we are looking for a GOOD MAN...(so are u i guess)
I've dated OLDER AND YOUNGER MEN...its all abt personality
Well i'd love 2 have a family one day so i wouldn't marry an older guy who doesnt want to have kids but expects to me take care of his .... hire a nanny instead!!! (even tho i dont have prob. wiv someone else's kid....just the fact that he refuses 2 have more....hmmmmmmmm no way)
That's an oppinion from someone of the age group 25-35 if u wondered what some of us think abt it
I've been on that situation as well.-.-. I see things this way... may be the first few years will be impossible for u and him to stay as friends...beacause , as I understand from your post, he still have feelings for you, so yeah, it is VERY HARD to remain just AS FRIENDS with someone u still have feelings for.... the pain is still there..for HIM...
Of course he needs to deal with it...and move on...for mental health and ur kids ...after all that was a beautiful result of ur marriage right??
But he needs to be a father.... and he will always be a father...no matter how angry is he with u now. So I guess that he needs to cool down and may be u need to wait for a while and just deal with him as PARENtS...time will let u know if u can be friends or not,...
Give him some time to deal with the pain of loosing you...I'm sure later down the road if u guys make things right u can be good friends and parents
It works :) I know by my own experience...(even if i wasnt married) It's just a matter of time Good luck!!
Well I've heard that abt latin american women as well.... pfffffffffffffff
Some one said in a post here that ppl gets married for soo many different reasons is so true and is not related just 2 asians or latins ... not everybody wants to go USA for a ...ahem..."better life"...
Everybody deserves respect...no matter if ur white hispanic asian black or whatever
Waaaaah!...Oh yeah It happened to me, few years ago...
We chatted, cam, phone and then we decided that we wanted to be together... we met.... and we had a great relationship for 2 years or so... but basically we fell in love when we were far . :)
It's over of course but was a beautiful experience.... Happens on NET , happens on RL as well :) Good luck to everyone :)
If u did ur best thats enough!!!.... stop wondering what did u do wrong because most probably u will NEVER get the answer.... happens in real life as well ....often...
There are thousands of questions that are never answered
Did u do ur best? that's it !!
Growing up has something to do with facing that weird and bad stuff happen , that sometimes its not our fault , and in spite of that we shouldnt loose faith :)
So keep trying!!! And GOOD LUCK!!
ps:someimtes girls act weird, so do guys... keep that on mind... go get a nice one ;)
Ur right there Someone explained me that biologycal fact a while ago (a Phd Biologyst friend of mine,....a girl btw) To be honest I dont remember how was that supposed to work but its true....we talk more than men.... awwwwwwwwwww
LOL again....FYI ...80% of latin people are european descendant....so that leaves me out of my own race ...I'm not hispanic then!!
Wrong there ...
Just 20% of people IN AMERICA (america=whole american contienent , that INCLUDES USA and Canada, south and center america) is REALLY NATIVE AMERICAN...(amerindians as someppl may call them )
The rest of us....descendants of a mix between mostly spanish (or french or english , german or italian etc ) and native people .
RE: Your ex, yourself and the relationship
aawwwwwwNaw dear im pretty sure i dont love him... at all...otherwise i would , may be , give it a second chance.... but if theres no love...... doesnt worth da pain :)