I think he means that , since there have been over 2000 gods through history ... believers just believe in 1 over 2000. We atheist believe in 0 over 2000...so that makes all of us even believers... nearly atheists.
Well I do keep in touch every now and then with my ex and as far as I know my bf has no problem with that... and if... why would him? Im quite far now and if it's and ex and he is my current... that clearly states that Im not interested in getting back with my ex bf , isnt it?
And I do know he keeps in touch with a couple of his ex. Wich is ok with me.
But I would get mad if they show up at our place. And probably kick some asses .
Depends on what stage are we on the relationship. And depends on who can afford more than the other part...
I mean If I would have kept my job and my own apartment etc. , I would expect to pay 50% and 50% for shared holidays, or even more , because I have a daughter and I wasn't used to anyone pays her expenses in any way.
But now it's different...we're a family.
Anyways , If you are in a relationship it's natural stop thinking abt what's yours and mine and instead going for what WE have.
And I would wonder a lot if it hurts to share with that person...then... what it's my concept of being a 'couple' .
Since we are in a globalized world, and there are so many different beliefs , and people moves from here to there every single day ...and as I Do believe that we HUMANS are all equal...I do support freedom of belief - note here I'm an atheist and I believe that religion is CRAP and the worse brainwashing crap ever , but that's ME.- And truly believe we, inmigrants , should keep our identity in our new home, UNLESS that goes with the laws of the new country .
I do intend learning german as fast as I can. I do respect their law and try to adapt as much as I can. But they won't take away from me my identity... capisci? And I am a person as many other inmigrants that can FOR SURE bring something useful to this country's society. As many other inmigrants.
Now , when it comes to Law, we should accept and respect it, after all , moving to a new country implies that you accept the rules of living here , right?
But what certainly pays my attention ...its the 'strenght' with what some people talks about their 'land' and they forget our ancestors were all inmigrants ...from here to there...And many of you belong to countries that go and took over of new lands exterminating the natives there. Right??? I mean the UK for example.
But that's another issue, It was just an observation.
Yes girl...scary enough got the CIA checking us out hehehehe Of course no measurement will be absolutely correct, but damn right it´s pretty close to reality
NOt every guy is a liar. Not every woman is a victim. Not all men are jerks nor all women are saints.
That kind of statements are childish and won't make u get over the situation.
Just don't take it personally. If he wasn't interested in you , and it looks like that , coz he simply didn't want to spend more time with you and move it forward and stuff... then let it go. Was his choice. And you will have plenty more.
Some people can't deal with rejection, some other can't face things straight.
And if it turns out he didnt really worth the hassle then you're way better out of his way , to find a guy that treats you with the respect you deserve.
I have always thought that we can't ask others to be , act or feel the way we want to. Things develop one way or another for diferent people , on different scenarios and in different stages of life, so wondering 'Why didnt he' or her , its a big big waste of time.
You cant control or will never know if his intentions were real or not.
All you can do , its take it easy , check in within yourself if you are may be , having a wrong approach or actually , moving things too fast for some other human being.
All you have control about its yourself.
So. let it go and move on.
Yes , there are cases when things worked out for both persons involved , that might be you later. But take it easy, stop wondering WHY.
I have always thought that we can't ask others to be , act or feel the way we want to. Things develop one way or another for diferent people , on different scenarios and in different stages of life, so wondering 'Why didnt he' or her , its a big big waste of time.
You cant control or will never know if his intentions were real or not.
All you can do , its take it easy , check in within yourself if you are may be , having a wrong approach or actually , moving things too fast for some other human being.
All you have control about its yourself.
So. let it go and move on.
Yes , there are cases when things worked out for both persons involved , that might be you later. But take it easy, stop wondering WHY.
I have always thought that we can't ask others to be , act or feel the way we want to. Things develop one way or another for diferent people , on different scenarios and in different stages of life, so wondering 'Why didnt he' or her , its a big big waste of time.
You cant control or will never know if his intentions were real or not.
All you can do , its take it easy , check in within yourself if you are may be , having a wrong approach or actually , moving things too fast for some other human being.
All you have control about its yourself.
So. let it go and move on.
Yes , there are cases when things worked out for both persons involved , that might be you later. But take it easy, stop wondering WHY.
I don't think he would actually decline the Nobel Prize , so yeah , He's not exactly promoting peace in the world and stuff. Looks like a democrat Bush.
Well, I'm not 'single' and my profile clearly states Im in a relationship, and my profile picture shows me and my bf so it's pretty clear Im not looking anymore.
I was -single- when I joined , but I still like the forums and blogs and stuff and he has no problem or whatsoeever that Im still around. He doesn't come around anymore though, but it's his business.
Now , in a while I won't be legally 'single' anymore either , and more likely I will still come around.
And I don't see any harm on it, I like people here. Specially some, hehe.
Ps: Im the kind of person that doesn't take restrictions very well. If He would have told me ' You CANT come around on CS'... Just because... then I would have a problem.
Im a single mom as well, my daughter is 8 and she's the light of my life. Definetely my life would suck big time without her. She's my little partner and friend, so smart and independent.
It's been the two of us since I was pregnant when that guy abandoned us , so basically I have ALWAYS been a single mom.
My ex lives fifteen minutes away from where I used to live. In seven years he visited her ... five times. Even though I have always had a good attitude torwards him so my girl doesn't keep resentment. Her mental health it's the most important for me. SO no excuse or whatsoever.
I do agree it's unfair ...but nobody said life had to be fair. It is what it is.
Now, there are great guys around , I have one myself and happy as hell about it.
Take it as it comes and give yourself the chance to be happy. Youre not just a mother but an example to your kids to be happy themselves. Said this , that you be happy its a MUST.
Many of us have jobs where our logic is THE weapon we daily use. As in engineering for example-my area- If people wouldnt trust my logic -yes Im a woman- I would put under lots of serious risk two hundred men . I guess my logic its pretty reliable.
I wish I could say I live it up all relaxed and one day at time and stuff but...
That's not me...I need structure and a plan and a schedule to go for... and goals, personal , professional , whatever... but a goal to achieve or I simply feel useless and ... I really need to keep my brain as busy as possible... that's how I feel alive.
RE: Atheist women
I think he means that , since there have been over 2000 gods through history ... believers just believe in 1 over 2000. We atheist believe in 0 over 2000...so that makes all of us even believers... nearly atheists.