You did what was right in your heart and mind, being justified that your brother DID call. There is nothing to reproach you in that instance. As far as your missed date, your brother probably helped you once again. Next time he calls, tell him thanks for getting you out of a lousy date.
Where were you at the Security Council when they decided that Iraq was a 21st. century country with a 21st century arsenal and army? Ya shoulda tapped Powell on the shoulder and gave him the same no-nonsense treatment
RE: Was I rude and how can I prevent this from happening again
You did what was right in your heart and mind, being justified that your brother DID call. There is nothing to reproach you in that instance. As far as your missed date, your brother probably helped you once again.Next time he calls, tell him thanks for getting you out of a lousy date.