How many men would have a problem being a house husband? You know looking after the baby during the day, packing the kid's lunches,cooking, taking care of the home, doing laundry etc... while their significant other worked to bring home the bacon? Ladies would this be a problem for you, having a man whose job it was to look after things at home while you worked? Would you prefer that to having both parents(if you had kids) being out working?
Yeah but human being are FAR more COMPLEX than a bunch of emotions and genes. I think we'e only scratched the surface of our understanding about ourselves.
Lets say you're a Christian and you believe that god gives us all free will to choose. Then in your eyes the driver exercised his free will and got behind the wheel. He could have chosen otherwise, he knew he was taking a chance, he knew better but he made his choice. The same way we all make choices everyday.
To those that might not go the religious route, they'll try and think of reasons, Was he abused and therefore has a disreguard for the feelings of others, Was he taught respect for others at home, did he grow up in a bad environment, blah,blah,blah,and you know there are people who might have grown up in the same type of environment - and yet dong't go getting behind a wheel of a car and put the lives of others at risk. At the end of the day they still made a choice. Judge from that as you will. JMHO.
Look its either you want free will or you don't want it. There is no in between. Anybody here could decide that they want to run around and hurt children,I don't think you need to be in a religion or not to do that, what makes one person decide to do it and another not to? I don't get what God has to do with it except that some find he makes for a good whipping boy. Bottom line some people are just sick and EVIL.
Bingo. I've gotten tons of these, TONS. All claiming to be widowed and with kid/kids. You've got to read between the lines to get to the truth. Ladies got to be savy to pick out the real from the fake.
Okay, well as a single parent I guess if I lost my spouse I'd have a care for my kid's future. I'd want to be sure that a potential partner knew that I had kids so they could decide if this kind of relationship was right for them. I wouldn't just dismiss them in turn - unless it was written in big and bold " LOOK I JUST WANT A MOMMY FOR MY KIDS".
I've come across lots of those, I see widowed, kids and I go directly to the bottom of the letter, that usually gives me thE details I need to determine if its possibly real of the usual SCAMMER.
I don't fall into the category of those with TOO MUCH MAIL or TOO BUSY TO ANSWER MAIL category. Its not the quantity - its the QUALITY. Far too many want to lead you offsite so they can get to your e-mail address, they don't want a relationship with me, they want one with my yahoo and hotmail.
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RE: Ladies with Blue Eyes
Black eyes huh? Why are they beaten because their eyes aren't blue?