tainogirl Forum Posts (3,777)
Did the rest of the world ask Britain to 'civilize' them? And why do you get to determine what is or isn't civilized? Doesn't that smack of arrogance? You've gone into other civilizations and meddled with them yet, YET you have a problem with others coming into yours. Don't you think those countries that you entered had to adapt to you while you were there, interesting how you seem to have a problem doing the same now that the shoe is on the other foot.
Just thought I'd see what the ladies would say if the shoe was on the other foot and the guy was the one with a lot of kids. Just noting that not every woman is keen on mothering, especially not someone else's kids. This is something I've observed some men say they are not keen to do. I've also observed that a lot of ladies say their kids have to come first, but I've also seen that not a lot of ladies want or would probably appreciate being second fiddle which might become a factor if there are a lot of young kids involved. Some of the ladies would prefer if the man had older kids and I've also seen this as a preference of men too especially if they have gone and left the nest. A common factor that applies to both men and women seems to be how much attention will I be getting in this relationship.
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Your 20 year old son/daughter comes home and introduces you their much older partner
I know many say that age is just a number and once two people are happy that is all that should matter. While this might be the way you may feel if this was a situation you or someone else found themselves in, what about if this was your kid? What if one day your son/daughter comes home and introduces you to their significant other and they are in their 40's or 50's probably with a kid or two? Would this be a source of concern for you or would you just be happy that they had found someone and give them your blessing?