tainogirl Forum Posts (3,777)

Guys ever wonder why you're not getting replies to your mail and flowers?

Well.... besides the fact that some folks just don't want to reply if the mail/flower does not move them or your pic just does not make them wet with anticipation. Besides all that, you've got the scammers to blame for a decline in responce or maybe no mail or replies. I've been here for just over a year and boys it is dismal. I can probably count on one hand and a couple extra fingers the amount of actual NON-SCAMMER types that have contacted me suggesting some interest. Been looking over my mail since I've been here and its pathetic to see the sheer number of folks that have tried all sorts of tactics to BS me.

I don't know, but I don't think I look like I was born yesterday but one does get a bit fed up of reading the pathetic spelling, cut and paste, fake pic and the inevitable contact me at yahoo or hotmail crap. When it gets to the point when you see your mail light up and your delete trigger finger is already at the ready you know things have gone bad. Thankfully there are some decent folks out there that can still bring a smile to the face but lets face it,after a year's worth of this nonsense its no wonder some women just don't bother and give up. I'm sure any guy out there that has been targeted by a swarm of scammers constantly knows what I'm talking about. Frankly I've given up on the finding anyone here thing so its mainly about the forums now. Sad really that a site that has so much potential and has so much more to offer that other sites do is being dirtied this way. This site should be about connecting people but it seems far too many here are into connecting with your pocketbook and personal info for their own sick pleasure.

RE: Is Taking It Slow That Important?

We have a saying:
"See me and come live with me are two different things."

Take time to know him/her.

Favorite Movie quotes

We wants it, we needs it. Must have the precious. - Lord of the Rings The Two Towers

Favorite Movie quotes

At my signal unleash hell - Gladiator

Favorite Movie quotes

It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again - Silence of the Lambs

I know its not suppose to be funny but this cracks me up every time.

Favorite Movie quotes

"Say hello to my leetle friend!" - Scarface

RE: Do you spend too much time on here?

And a good morning to you good lady.


(Don't worry your soul is safe with me)

TAINO'S ULTIMATE PARTY MIX

Okay now we'll have to part company on the Green Day bit they were never my cup of chocolate tea.

TAINO'S ULTIMATE PARTY MIX

Janet Jackson - If



Janet Jackson - Alright



KLF (featuring Tammy Wynette)- Justified and Ancient



Angelique Kidjo - Agolo


Loved this song the first time I heard it.

TAINO'S ULTIMATE PARTY MIX

A Def Lepard fan I see.

TAINO'S ULTIMATE PARTY MIX

Sean Paul - Get Busy


Sean Paul - Like Glue


Machel Montano - Push Yuh Bumper


Machel Montano - Wining Season

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Tears for Fear - Shout



Depeche Mode - Enjoy the Silence



Def Leppard - Photograph



Def Leppard - Hysteria

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Men at Work - Land Down Under



Culture Club - Do you really want to hurt me



Human League - Human

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Gosh it must be WAYYY past their bedtime.

TAINO'S ULTIMATE PARTY MIX

Staying Alive - The Bee Gees



Snap - I've got the Power



Snap - Rhythm is a Dancer



Haddaway - What is Love?


Baltimora - Tarzan Boy

TAINO'S ULTIMATE PARTY MIX

Boogie Wonderland - Earth, Wind & Fire



That's the Way I like it - KC and the Sunshine Band



You Should be Dancing - The Bee Gees

TAINO'S ULTIMATE PARTY MIX

Lets Groove Tonight - Earth, Wind & Fire

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These threads could use a little livening up. Post your ultimate favorite Party songs.

Don't Stop the Music - Yarborough & Peoples



Don't Waste Your time - Yarborough & Peoples

RE: AMERICAN MEN DO IT BETTER

You seem to know A LOT about the love making skills of the American man. Now HOW exactly did you come by this data that they are the best? And those that do want to go to the US, you sure they are just going there because of the great lovemaking skills? I've been to the US I don't recall running to the nearest American man and begging him to marry me or wanting to change my citizenship to American - quite happy with the ones I've already got thanks. Not everyone is so desperate to become an American.

Should all women just date or marry Asian guys?

I'm missinformed?! I'm not the one here protesting that American or European women just aren't cutting the mustard anymore and that Asian women are just the hottest thing since sliced bread.

RE: HOW IMPORTANT IS U'R PARTNER ZODIAC SIGN TO U

Them there's fighting words!

Should all women just date or marry Asian guys?

From reading some of the threads since I've been here, it would appear that Asian is where its at when it comes to dating and marriage. I've read loads about the Asian woman but whose lobbying for the Asian MAN? Why is it that the American and European men get all the 'respect' and 'love' and 'great treatment' and the rest of us women are left out in the cold? I say no fair! So the next Indian or Chinese guy I spot walking down the road is gonna get the once over as a potential, if he gets real lucky I'll just throw a bag over him and carry him home, forget the American or European guys - they just don't seem to posess those down home old fashioned values of treating a lady right anymore. Its Asian all the way! So American ladies don't worry if you're catching flack from some of these guys just jump on a plane and go find you an Asian man that will treat you right!

P.S. Just for the record I think people should just marry who they want, since we all look for different things in a mate, so marry or date who you want be they Asian, African, American etc... Be happy for the love you've found without having to drag someone else down.

RE: S.E.ASIAN WOMAN ONLY MARRY FOR MONEY

Does being a man mean:
She doesn't need any attention from you?
Many women are incapable of buying their OWN shoes.
You can't make your own dinner sometimes?
You are incapable of turning down the toilet seat?
Only you are entitled to a guys night out?
Only SHE should watch the kids?

Men don't stop being men until they give away their bat and balls.

RE: S.E.ASIAN WOMAN ONLY MARRY FOR MONEY

Glad to hear it. Actually I think people need to stop coming here as if they are seeking permission to get involved with who they want to. You want to marry an Asian lady- then marry one, you want to marry American - then marry one. What I find pathetic are people who will marry foreign BECAUSE they expect to be pampered like a baby that needs a diaper change every few seconds or complaining that they were used as a meal ticket when all the clear signs were there. Women are not the only ones who contribute to how a culture behaves, men contribute too so if you find a certain culture of women behaving a certain way whose fault is that? There is good and bad in EVERY CULTURE. Men marry from whatever culture you wish and get on with it without having to resort to generalized degrading of other women.

RE: S.E.ASIAN WOMAN ONLY MARRY FOR MONEY

You speaking to me?

RE: S.E.ASIAN WOMAN ONLY MARRY FOR MONEY

Don't people marry for all sorts of reasons? Good and Bad? I've seem both men and women go after cash? I don't know that there is any specific culture that ONLY marries for money, on the other hand if the person is coming from an improvished country and you are a foreigner of some means, then knowing this you take your chances, I'm sure there could be room for LOVING YOU AS WELL AS YOUR MONEY.

RE: Believer Bashers

Have no fear you're secret is safe with me.

RE: Believer Bashers

The above was so sensibly written it hardly needs anything more to be added. All I'll add is that at the end of our lives when all the blah,blah, blah, is over, we'll all get the chance to see who is or isn't right on this matter.

RE: If you're an educated woman, would you date a man who can't spell or speak properly?

Thats why I like to hang around with all types of people, everybody can have something to contribute that is interesting despite the level of education. I've had deep conversations with folks who were uneducated and enjoyed myself and I've had similar talks with folks who are educated and enjoyed myself. It pays to be flexible, try living in the Caribbean where each island speaks differently, even on the ones where English is the main language there are all these dialects to contend with. I've lived in Tobago, Trinidad and Jamaica and had to learn to adjust to three different ways of speaking dialect as well as standard English, and then you have American version English and British version English. Imagine speaking in a dialect and not being understood or told that one can't speak or spell properly. There are lots of things that go into making a WHOLE person, level of intellect is just one thing, still everyone is entitled to look for what pleases them since people do have preferences. Some of which others may find shallow. To thine own self be true.

RE: Babies in photos

I've got absolutely no interest in putting my kid's pics up on this website.