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The One Night Stand

The One Night Stand

Okay this one is for the guys. Guys lets say you been talking to a lady for a while, you finally go out on your first date and one thing leads to another and you wind up sleeping together. Despite the best intentions of both parties, she winds up getting pregnant(sometimes stuff happens).

Would you continue to date her, even though having kids now was the farthest thing from your mind and she's not your steady girlfriend?

Would you feel you had some obligation towards this child or would it simply be easier to just walk away and maybe just make some financial contributions.

Do you think she'd still be dateable to you now that she was pregnant and chances are that her body might be physically changed by said pregnancy?

Would marriage even be a consideration?

Your thoughts guys(I know you ladies will chip in too).

RE: Where are the most handsome men?

I've never ever been to some of these places, so how does one honestly vote? So my answer is that there are hotties EVERYWHERE!!!

RE: The Woman Said To Me... "Im Sorry, But I Have Something To Tell You" !!

Yep it would have helped.

RE: The Woman Said To Me... "Im Sorry, But I Have Something To Tell You" !!

Wasn't there one yesterday you were trying to give the gentle heave ho, now today you got one hoping her hubby takes the big heave ho?

RE: The Dreaded Morning After Email Of Rejection

Look your not interested okay. Tell the woman you had a great time but you don't feel any sparks relationship wise. Just do it. Instead of rambling on about what women are like or not like or what they are used to or not used to. No one likes rejection, but neither do they like folks who can't be straight up with them and get it done like a man. I'd hate someone wasting my time and giving me false hope simply because they can't come straigt with me. You don't have to be rude or crass - just get it done and allow the woman to move on. Nuff said.

RE: Mother to be and single.

Well it is a lot harder to wave the stick around with all those extra pounds.

RE: IF YOU WERE 55 ..AND HAD A BUNCH OF PEOPLE 18 TO 21 WHO WANTED TO DATE YOU ... WOULD YOU DATE ONY O

Well I can't say what exactly ALL of them wanted from you - but I damn sure know they want something. And I'm guessing YOU want something in return, could be love, excitement, etc... The issue for me would be whether what they had to offer was anything that I really wanted and if in the end all it boiled down to was that the only thing on offer was a bat and two balls and I wanted more then what's the point?

RE: Mother to be and single.

My small two cents. If I was single and pregnant dating would be the last thing on my mind. There's just so much going on with a woman emotionally and physically at this time and I don't think a man would be a priority at that point - probably afterwards though. JMHO.

RE: IF YOU WERE 55 ..AND HAD A BUNCH OF PEOPLE 18 TO 21 WHO WANTED TO DATE YOU ... WOULD YOU DATE ONY O

Well I must say I haven't had this much fun in a thread for a while. I've read all the posts and I have to say this beat back any comedy show on tv. You go with your bad self OP! Stick to those countries where the parents are so willing to give 'consent' to you seeing their young daughters and avoid out here cause we can be a little more, shall we say 'UNWILLING' to consent to that kind of business. Frankly of these girls are supposed to be mature women why do they even need their parents 'consent'? I can't see myself being with no man who is supposed to be grown and having to be asking mummy and daddy if they could see someone unless they were some teenager. Either you're an adult or you're not. If its all so great and wonderful why do you even need to know what we think? Go find your young chick and live happily ever after, but don't go pretending that you didn't know this wasn't going to raise some eyebrows. In any case I would fall under that 'dangerous moms' category especially if you're going to be referring to my daughter as 'Fair Game' not unless you had a real bad death wish. But hey you just keep on stroking your ego and feeling sorry for the rest of us who just can't appreciate the great fun you're having. Well that would not apply to me since I've dated younger guys but at least I could differentiate between ego boost and reality.You go bad boy!

RE: Do you think blondes have more Fun?

Didn't know that ones hair colour had a relation to how much fun you could have? This is the type of question someone who clearly lives in a place where there are lots of blonds would ask. What if you live in a country where there aren't any blonds or many blonds like I do. ( I got a cousin whose a redhead does that count? Should probably ask her how that affects her fun factor)Anyway we don't have many blonds and when it comes to fun we've got that part down to a science, just look at our Carnival! No one does fun quite like Trinbagonians do. So I guess its more an internal thing than what's covering your head.

RE: Was Muhammad a phalse prophet?Did he know your God?

Yeah well... they don't need a prophet false or other wise for all kinds of folks to do the Murder, death, kill thing. Guess it just sounds better if you do it in someone's name.

RE: Was Muhammad a phalse prophet?Did he know your God?

I get the impression you ALREADY think Muhammad is a false prophet so what's there really to discuss?

RE: what countrie have the hottest women

And the ones from Pluto - WOO HOO!

RE: what countrie have the hottest women

I hear that Venus ladies are way hot.

RE: what countrie have the hottest women

Are these the only countries that exist?

Who are the smartest, wisest ladies on CS?

Wisdom speaks for itself.

Who are the smartest, wisest ladies on CS?

Hot FLUSHES in the nether regions could only mean one things, one plate of curry too much.

Who are the smartest, wisest ladies on CS?

Well don't know if they have a choice - seeing as how I carry the stick.

Who are the smartest, wisest ladies on CS?

You know very well my stick is not for stirring curry - unless of course that's your pet name for your butt.

RE: I think i've eaten too much curry!

A bit of Febreze sprayed well onto your pants could take care of the odors on that other end.

Who are the smartest, wisest ladies on CS?

Well actually those who truly know me, know I'm really just a big stick carrying devil.

Who are the smartest, wisest ladies on CS?

Isn't it wonderful to be on a forum surrounded by so many women who are so willing to give us a shoulder to cry on, sound advice based on their years and experiences, many might not be beauty contest material but when you read their words they bring such enlightenment to your soul. Women willing to share themselves and their intelligence. A true sisterhood. Here's to all you CS ladies.

RE: I think i've eaten too much curry!

Living in a country that loves its curry I can tell you that curry is like a beautiful but dangerous snake,mess with it and it can mess you up(literally).

Who are the smartest, wisest ladies on CS?

Well I know the beauty and handsome thing has been done before but hey - looks do tend to fade over time, while smarts can last a lifetime. A good heart is just a functioning organ without that grey matter upstairs to fully bring it to life with emotion. I know there are tons of these women on CS, and I for one have always benefitted from their gems of wisdom, lots of beautiful women here as well but nothing is as good a compliment as a beautiful mind(Generally there are lots of smart ladies here). So who would you say are your pics for generating genuine nuggets of wisdom and spunk on CS?

Culinary delights around the world

MARS BARS? (Doesn't sound like the kind of stuff we'd want to stew or curry).

Culinary delights around the world

I draw the line though at cooking the Iguana and frogs. One I think Iguanas are sooo cute, we have lots of them running around the yard and two I can't stand frogs so no frog legs for me.

Culinary delights around the world

Good Lord woman, my mouth is watering just from the vision of this dish in my mind.

Do a lot of women have this problem?

SHHHHH! Look Dude I was trying to keep my big book deal a secret!(Gosh some people just can't keep a secret)

Culinary delights around the world

Interesting, what's that like?