Guys what do you love about women? I suppose by now almost every woman here must know what you don't like and can't stand about us(we've been told over and over....) but you're here aren't you and still looking right? So what are the POSITIVES?
There used to be the saying here by some women that if a man didn't beat them that he didn't love them. Proof that some women will allow themselves to endure anything. HOWEVER many are the cases where real or perceived 'meaness' has ended only one or two ways - with either one party severly hurt or one or both parties becoming one with a six foot hole. The lesson here is this - You may get away with meaness with some people but with others its a dangerous game to play.
Any man that had a problem with me having a child wouldn't be on my list of dating candidates. My ex and I wanted a kid and so we had one and I certainly have no intentions of appologuising to anyone for doing so. If a guy wants someone who is free and single and can shower them with all the attention then they are within their rights to go find someone who can provide that. Upfront they'll know what the deal is and if they can't handle it then they can get to stepping.
Yes it is macabre, you'll understand if I don't want to entertain such 'happy' thoughts. Death comes to us all and I'll just have to go when my time is up. My worry is not for myself but for a very sweet little girl who will be without a mother so you'll understand if I'd rather focus on living right now.
RE: So does the saying treat them mean to keep them keen work?
Somehow I don't think poor Costa wants his 'vegetables' steamed. Yah trying to frighten away me customers?