shelley_bee Forum Posts (43)

RE: What does a guy have to have to get you? (Be honest!)

Doe's it really matter what a woman wants, at the end of the day, the question is.....what do you want in the woman.... and when you define that, than you look for a woman with those qualities....

In answering your question....every woman is different, and what you say is wrong in what a woman is wanting, could well be the perfect match for the next man...

What do you want in a woman??

RE: anything rare and exotic in your house? What do you collect????

Authentic one off New Zealand Maori Art pieces...

RE: I'm new

Run while you still can...

RE: Forums look strange now

certainly hasnt made the forums any more exciting....so i certainly can't understand why the changes... they woulda done better adding a cam-system, now that woulda made things abit more exciting....

Merry Xmas All...

RE: if he beat you while you were pregnant ?

RE: Greatness?

Yes we are all great, for were we not made in the image of the almighty? But what has obviously happebed is that we have diminished the image by doing the wrongs that we have done. However that is not without repentence of our wrong doings....for God is a for giving God. Is he not?

RE: what three animals would you say best discribes you?

What no cuddly bear?

RE: what three animals would you say best discribes you?

Lion - I have the attributes of the Lioness, (Hunter & Loyal)

Owl - Very wise, (well at least I think so)

Dog - (Pitty) I can be very good to those who are good to me but very nasty when people try to push me or my family around

RE: How to achieve a free and fair forum?

oh my....nudda sarong....nudda



aahhh beta...

RE: The worst pick up lines ever spoken...

This is no lies, true story.

I was in a bar with my aunt and uncle and this guy came upto me (my hair was just past my butt) and he goes


How long did it take you to grow your hair

I was so shocked i was lost for words...i looked at my aunt my aunt looked at my uncle and my uncle reckons....fark off .... probably the same time its taking you to grow up....

the guy turned around and said to my uncle, 'whats that supposed to mean'?

And my uncle replied....her hair is still growing!!!

RE: How do people feel about tattoo's

Right on Phae

RE: How do people feel about tattoo's

I dont have a problem with them, everyone to their own i guess.

I got one myself upper right thigh ... damn hurt for the first five minutes than after that, it kinda felt good

RE: How to achieve a free and fair forum?

I have a hot pink outfit...a two piece one in each hand

as for the mesh stockings and camy knickers...probably all of them

RE: How long should you wait before sleeping with someone?

RE: How long should you wait before sleeping with someone?

Long enough to get his name, and remember it..

RE: How to achieve a free and fair forum?

Hello Rosellas..

Firstly i would like to note that the forums are actually free. Secondly i know its not so easy being the new kid in town (or in this case in the forums) you are no doubt going to have your run in's, disagreements, and disappointments with others, i know i did and ive only been a member here for just under a month, but i don't let others comments offend me, its pointless and at the end of the day i have more important things to worry about than other peoples comments. But we all get em, its what we do with them that count. If you are going to allow disapointing comments pull you down than you will not enjoy the forums, because there are actually some really good comments and threads in the forums, some real funny ones too. Hang in there you will certainly come accross the funny members, believe you me.

As for your suggestions on the limit of number of threads per month, now there you will definately see boring forums. The few dominant (your words not mine) group that you mention, i actually think, that if it wasn't for them, these forums would be a waste of time.

So after my long speel

I wish you goodtimes in the forums. You be rite mate.

RE: About flowers

That is so true, nothing like visual from the person who has sent them, i havn't seen the profile yet, but i have no doubt on your judgement about his profile....you have probably summed up his answer in a nut-shell.. okay me gonna go check his profile out now.

RE: About flowers

Me personally, im not a flower person full-stop, dont have them in my garden let alone in my home, never buy flowers for anyone even for those i visit when sick...i don't like them because flowers are only beautiful for a short time and then the wittle away and die....i replace flowers in my life with native plants for whatever the purpose. Get well thought, house warming, visit a friend i haven't seen for awhile the list goes on...

However, on this site, i accept the flowers with good thought and always return the flowers (a different flower of course..lol)with a thank you message.

You mention at the end of your thread....'i sent a few hardly got any back'....weeeell, when you give flowers, you should not be waiting for a return of flowers otherwise it defeats the whole purpose of why you actually gave them.... You give them because you want them, not to see how many you can get back.

I do hope you have better luck with your flowers.

RE: Finish the sentence

Did ya get em?

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

Hang on Phae, i totally agree with you, but if you read the threads i wrote to jason were my opinions yes, but also supportive of his decision, i did not put anyone down (other than the last one)and if you read his referring to me, he was the one putting me down. so im not being narky about nothing, but i still stand by what i said. My opinion and nothing else and if he don't like what i said fine, but no need for him to get personal, e.g. i need to get a life, oh please like i said to him, he don't no crap about me. thank you for your advise, wisdom or whatever you would like to call it, but to be honest, i totally can't be bothered about having this conversation or even coming back into this thread or any other thread that jason puts out there, I wouldn't want to upset him.

have a good day.

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

Blah blah blah get over yourself already jason and be a man, if ya gonna leave your wife than leave her instead of looking for sympathy for what your going to do, mr holier than yourslef Ya gonna do what you already knew what you were gonna do before you put this thread up so handle the feedback and show some form

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

Blah blah blah get over yourself already jason and be a man, if ya gonna leave your wife than leave her instead of looking for sympathy for what your going to do, mr holier than yourslef Ya gonna do what you already knew what you were gonna do before you put this thread up so handle the feedback and show some form

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

Your so funny alright Jason, you put up a messagem, people put in their opinions and you diss them, nice real nice. as for me having experience i have plenty, i have worked and cared for people who still suffer from traumas through them being in the war, from all walks of life, so don't even go there Jason, you don't know crap about me, Good luck for your future.

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

Sounz like your husband was just farked in the head because he chose to, big difference when it's a sickness, and i don't have prozac sitting on my dresser kizzy.......at the end of the day, jason will do what he's gonna do, and good luck to him just like we all do what we're gonna do no matter what people say....so

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

Yes my opinion, not a lecture.

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

Yes, that could well be true Jason, i wish you all the best with what ever you decide, i'm sure it isn't easy for you. Good luck for the future Jason....

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

And there it is Jason.....Thats what i said in my first message....What do you want? I think you have already made up your mind, so I guess at the end of the day there really wasnt any need for your question was there, i mean look at how the marriage came about. You mention your not looking for sympathy, but you more or less gave your wife sympathy when u married her, because you don't need to be married to be the best dad in the world. You could have still supported your baby without marrying the mother of your child. That poor poor child. Good luck with what ever your decision is Jason, good luck to your wife and your sweet baby.

RE: How would you feel if your partner had a serious mental illness?

The question is, 'How do You Feel'? Im not sure what i get out of your question, but if that was my partner I would continue to love him no matter what. I can only imagine how hard it must be for you and your 3yr old, but is your confusion more to do with whether you still want to be with your wife or is is a confusion of what to do, because if it is a confusion of what to do, I'm sure if you spent abit of time working with doctors and councillors and may even support groups for this sickness, you may feel differently. My sister has bipolar and her husband still continues to love and cheerish her, and always there by her side, no matter what, because he has the support from various groups, friends, church and family. she has suffered this for almost twenty years they have 6 beautiful children and yes he finds sometimes it is hard, and thats when the various support groups, friends and family come into play. Your wife is still the wonderful loving person you married, hang in there, be strong Jason. I do feel for you and i do have a little understanding of what you maybe going through, but be strong and try find some support groups near you, talk to your friends and family about it. May the good lord bless you Jason.

RE: Why do all the nice ladies live so far away?

So true...Paul, so true.

RE: new 4 me

oops was for you bourbon....