i have no problem with children. i actually enjoy spending time and playing with them. however at this point in my life i'm not sure i could support a child. although...if the person in question was self supporting etc then maybe i wouldn't mind dating. i'm not saying that i'm a stingy little miser, i just need to be able to support myself before i can support someone else.
and being a father through dating at 19? that would be one helluva story to tell to the parentals
i enjoy it because it means that you've broken my security wall (albeit not that defensive) and i'm comfortable enough to reciprocate the flirting. and when that happens i can be very flirtatious
i...probably would. i'd see the move as a chance to discover something new in life. not only outwardly but within myself as well. and if i really loved this person, and they loved me in return, i would. that being said, i hope this doesn't happen until many years from now...because right now in the present, i really don't have the stability to move anywhere yet
i think relationships have become another mechanism at an attempt of momentary happiness. something that's been taken highly for granted and can be cast away as easily as an old glove. which i suppose is where the selfish aspect comes in, people only think of what will make them happy, and ignore all the reasons to why a relationship should be. sure you need to think of yourself but there also has to be a mutual sense of selflessness that's reciprocated and balances out in the relationship.
of course i'm making a big generalization about this generation, and not everyone is like this.
but i addressed this fact, there are brilliant addicts, but they still didn't contain the mental capacity to resist the urge of dependence. to be brilliant doesn't make you capable of everything, just a lot.
it's kind of hard to distinguish a certain line between when it's necessary to act with emotion or to act pragmatically. so the best thing to do is to have a balance between the two. act with you heart and your mind at the same time.
the thing is, drugs are not for everyone. it requires a certain mental capacity to grasp the nature of the euphoria involved in the consumption of narcotics. it's kind of a paradox, the mentally capable are the one's who should, if at all, find themselves taking recreational drugs because their minds can comprehend the world outside of the conventional lines and restrictions. however, the common stereotype of a person taking drugs is someone who is stupid, shiftless, and poor. these people are the ones who did not have the maturity and mental capacity to not develop a dependency and ultimately ruined their lives.
i said all of that to say this, i've seen some brilliant people enjoy the leisure of rec drugs and still remain brilliant. i've also seen brilliant people delve into the realm of the drug induced surreal and never return.
the winter season is about the joy of being with family no matter what holiday you celebrate. that's why there are so many that promote filial bonding. it doesn't really matter who you believe in as long as you believe in the family.
technically speaking every day should be like that.
romanticism seems to be a dieing concept in this generation. even with all of the media and such that promote a movie-style love life since the dawn of celluloid, everyone seems to not have the patience to take a relationship on a slow and steady romantic journey. albeit, there are some people who still look for this. but they seem to be growing smaller in number, and the desire for instant gratification seems to be growing larger.
although, technically i probably have no business talking about this anyways...
RE: When you see the person above you......say first word comes to ur mind ?
itty bitty *giggle*