I have been thinking about this question a lot recently ... I think I would have a hard time moving and would want the person to move to be with me, yet that too is asking a lot.
I think I just need to fall in love, then work out the ins and outs of the relationship. I believe that with understanding and open communication about all the aspects of coming together to live together in a marriage (I would not move or ask someone to move to be with me for less) a solution that works for both can be achieved.
For the right man and situation ... I guess I would move.
I found a wonderful male friend online. He communicated a lot in the beginning, and any time things were going well for him, however over time as things got tougher in his life his communication died down such that it was I making all the effort.
When pushed in a corner ... his response was : "its not a good time ... trying to protect you".
A male friend says that it sounded like a load of CROAK.
My feeling is that he basically was ending our online relationship by just shutting me out slowly.
However I do believe my question above is legitimate as many european men do communicate less when they are not feeling strong ... in whatever sense of the word.
Heck, as long as the person stays on their meds .... bipolar is an illness...just like diabetics. If a diabetic stops taking their meds they can die, so can a bipolar person. The best book on the subject is call 'manic depression' its a book about the disorder and how to live with it. Bipolar people d not deal well with emotional stress....they need peaceful and stable lives that's all.
RE: How ready are you to change your life?
I have been thinking about this question a lot recently ... I think I would have a hard time moving and would want the person to move to be with me, yet that too is asking a lot.I think I just need to fall in love, then work out the ins and outs of the relationship. I believe that with understanding and open communication about all the aspects of coming together to live together in a marriage (I would not move or ask someone to move to be with me for less) a solution that works for both can be achieved.
For the right man and situation ... I guess I would move.