Teddy Pendergrass was their singer. He was one of the greatest R&B singers in the world. Without him, that group became what the Doors had become without Jim Morrison.
The world is like a video game created by God who's the Programmer. s a game it follows rules. The law of cause and effect is one. So as a whole, the world is perfect.
We are the game characters. Who those who believe, if we follow some rules, then we will be transferred to another better game where there is no more law of cause and effect. The others will end up somewhere else.
When you had a g/f, the other girls showed interest and now that you are single they do it not more...
Well, it could depend on you.
Maybe when you were dating you were more satisfied with yourself and now you are less. The girls perceive it and this plays against you to date again.
I think that the women prefer men that are confident, satisfied, happy, brave, ...
So the key could be increasing your self confidence by doing that something you have always wanted to do, or changing something in your life that could please you very much.
After reaching the point where you are very well with yourself, then the product is ready for the market. And the customers will come!
If your X has really treated you wrong for a long time and he has become an ex _before_ you found your new one, then his promises are nothing but fear of losing something he was confortable with.
If not, then I could suggest you to check the cause-effect relation the could have linked your decision and his behaviour. Anyway, since I don't know about it, I could be completely wrong. Sorry is so.
I'm only saying that the first situation could be easier to understand, by your kids.
RE: Harold Melvin and the Blue Notes
Teddy Pendergrass was their singer. He was one of the greatest R&B singers in the world. Without him, that group became what the Doors had become without Jim Morrison.