I loved that movie and it was a perfect example about how bad it is for some. I do things like turn off the light before bed time 3 times. I only get into bed once though, as long as it's from the left side.
thx. I misspelled the word and google gave me the "correct" spelling that I used. Why it didn't give me the real correct spelling I don't know. Google is usually pretty "blonde" proof. I figured I misspelled the word.
OCD is bad for some people. I saw a special on tv once. Some people can't leave the house unless they walk out "perfectly." They sometimes have to leave their house 10-20 times until they get it perfect. It takes all kinds of forms. It's a mental disorder and can be serious and affect people's lives. There's even medication for it.
In my cause it's just silly. It's mild and no big deal. If OCD were the flu, I would just have a sniffle in one nostril.
That would have been a lie. I ditched him because he smoked. His home stunk of smoke, his clothes, his breath, all stunk. etc etc etc. He hid it the first few dates but once we started getting close and saw each other often he couldn't hide it. He couldn't NOT take a cigarette break at dinner without getting irritable.
I want to control my boyfriend. I don't want to compete with a cigarette. :-)
Hey, smoke all you want I say to people. Doesn't bother me. I just won't date you. It's not a big deal and there are plenty of other women who like smokers.
Obsessive compulsive disorder. People feel compelled to do silly things, sometimes crazy things. Mine is mild. I have to have some things done certain ways. I can only go to bed if I get in bed from the left side of the bed. I tend to do things in threes. etc. Some have it bad. Not me, mine is silly and I can control it in public but when I'm alone I do the craziest things.
That's the problem with smoking. Smokers aren't in control. The tobacco controls them . The one smoker I dated couldn't even get through dinner at Applebee's on our dates without having to leave to step outside and smoke.
I agree with you, too each his own. I have my own issues to deal with and I will never be a anti-smoking crusader, I'll just not date a smoker.
It's like this. We all have our issues. I am a little OCD and a little bit of a perfectionist. Some issues are worse than others.
When I date a smoker I get to breath cancer causing smoke and kiss an ash try.
When a smoker dates me (a perfectionist) he gets all his work tools hung up from largest to smallest and he gets all his ties and underwear sorted and arranged by color. (underwear is sorted by newest to yellowest)
Plus smokers tend to burn holes in furniture and sheets and that drives perfectionist like me up the wall.
It you live with a smoker you are affected by their habit. You get to breath their smoke. You get to hear their hacking cough and see their yellow smokers teeth. You get to be there when they get lung cancer. You get to watch them spend your hard earned money on expensive packs of cigs instead of shoes for you.
Plus, smokers taste like ash trays when you kiss them. Their clothes stink. Their breath stinks. Their hair stinks. I dated a smoker once but never again.
When you live with a smoker their habit becomes your habit.
Smokers aren't bad people but their habit is a bad habit and I don't want to date a bad habit.
It's not about being reasonable or fair. It's about personal choice. Smokers choose to smoke, their choice. I choose not to date them, my choice.
I see people or are you just tumbleweeds in disguise?
I guess there is really no use for state forums when everyone hangs out in the International forum. CS is really not that busy of a forum compared to other places it seems.
If my dream guy wrote me and just said "hi" as you said.....then how would I know he was my dream guy? My dream would not just say hi. I will not find my soul mate in a guy too lazy to put some thought in his messages. No excuses from men will make those short "say nothing" messages a good thing.
I was just making a joke. Most of the older guys messaging me are very sweet and aren't trying to marry me. Many just make comments about my forum post and I reply to them.
I am not unstable, don't say that to me again or I will come to your house and eat you. Just kidding,.........no I'm not......yes I am obviously............test me.......kidding.....no.....yes......maybe......he he he he.....ha ha ha.....errrrrr... :-)
I have mean geese in my backyard that will back me up in a fight.
Only 3 of those messages were mine. I don't know who the other girl is. I did read your profile but I figured I could wrestle your girlfriend in a pool of pudding and the winner would get you. I could take her because I am an expert at wrestling in pudding.
I wanted to date the cute guy that lived two streets over and my dad said he was trouble. I dated him anyway in secret. He almost got me killed by speeding down the highway like a madman and we ran off the road and crashed. No serious injuries but after the crash the first thing the guy did was check out his car for damage. He didn't even ask how I was.
I should have listened to my dad.
I also wanted to be a woman fireman but my dad said he would shot all the other firemen if they looked at me. So I became a waitress.
Seeing there was still one of my mom's brownies left. She makes the best brownies and I thought they were all gone. I know that's a pretty silly thing to smile about but it's almost 6am here and I was hungry for a snack. When I saw that brownie I actually jumped with glee. :-o
Mindyyy Forum Posts (155)
RE: Speak Your Mind
I see you profile says you think you already found the woman you want. So why are you on a dating site?