Well, you left out one respond out of your list; toooooooo faaaaaar awayyyyyy Still too young will do
Anyway; I have some words for you that I hope it will help.
Unfortunately, men will always cheat OK, I take that back, not always but most of the time. So, the only thing you can do is to narrow that possibility to be happening with you again by doing the following:
1. Be patient; believe it or not, you still young and life has more to offer for you. Give your self the benefit to lay down and let things happen to you rather than going after it. See what other can do to get to you.
2. Select wise; you should not lower your standers. It is too soon to do that for now. IMHO, you should be accepting the type of men whom the have principles and values in which they believe in it and live by it. It is those that still have faith in humanity and and treasure nature native and manmade alike.
3. Don't downgrade yourself; it is those whom you allow to become your friend are lucky to have you in there life and those whom they choose to loose you are the losers. Nobody is equal to your grace unless they treat you equally.
You must know your own true value before others do; that is a two way street, so be careful.
Vanilla cream is more like to be but with no ice for sure
Still, I agree,
what ever the other my have in mind, you still can make your point straight forward.
if you need time just put it on the table dear, some as soon as they find somthing they were looking for they just wana grab it, so don't take it the wrong way, it could be an act out of desperation
PS: you could use that as a hint and just ruuuuuuuuuuuuun away :super:
be careful, you need to be focused while reading, you are going for universality and more readings will come your way
still, my wordings could be the reason
you may use a software called "readplease" you can download it from dawnload.com. after you install it there will be two of them on your system. one is free and the other is trail, just use the free one to read for you. I sometimes use it for long text.
PS: did you read my post at your thread: "I GOT INTO University"?? it is a long one too
I am sure that you have received good advices by now, especially from summers. She is a good person with good advices.
However, if you allow me to add my humble advice as a guideline:
First; prepare for each class using each course syllabus by reading the material intended to be lectured at each class. If you didn’t understand something during your readings, that is good, just write the question to be asked during the lecture. Don’t spend time to answer it during your readings. You read to be familiar with the subject of the lecture not to understand it. Class time is the time to understand.
Second; make notes during lecture and remember to ask the questions you wrote during your readings. Don’t be keen in taking notes more than understanding the lecture.
Third; do your homework on the same day it was given not the day before submitting them. It is much easier and part of your revision to do the homework in the same day.
Fourth, on your preparation to the next class, your previous class notes, completed homework and course material using the syllabus are your resources for preparation. Always be prepared.
If you do manage to do the above steps, I guaranty you that you will have plenty of time to review and be prepared at the night before final exam or any exam for that matter, especially pop quizzes. Good luck and you will need small and simple luck if you follow the above
IMHO, in our life we may have issues that we became involved with by our choice or enforced upon us by others or circumstances. Some of us, if not all, think of them as obstacles to reach a certain goal or objective.
So, what are your objectives vs. issues??
Sorry that I answered your question by a question but I think that only you who can answer yours,,,, especially that your profile presents you as an independent and mind oriented person yet you seek for someone to complete you.
I do agree with you, if you can’t take care of yourself then how you could take care of someone else?? You need to feel good about yourself before others do.
With that being said, please let me help you answering my above question;
Whatever your issues are, you should use it for your advantage. Put your issues upfront such that if someone would like to reach you, he needs to go through them first. Then he must have accepted you including your issues. It is then and only then that both of you can work together to resolve such issues and more issues that will become ahead. Reality fact “issues will always present themselves by our choice or not. It is those whom they have each other to deal with it, that they are most fortunate”
So, Studying, raising your daughter, meeting your selfish needs and all those you may think as issues in your life should be on the table and I am sure you are worth it if you can simply do the same for him too.
Compromise is the right tool to achieve your objective for joining CS, that is, if your objective is to have a lifelong companion. This is my objective too and I hope this is the primary objective for all CS members.
Finally, take a piece of paper; write the above definition of issues and objectives. Then make a table with two columns. One column is your objectives the other is your issues. Then fill in the table. Make sure that he makes the same table too. Now work on it together to achieve both of your objectives.
PS: I think I answered your question too. Your mate should be a reliever not a burden and this is a two way street.
Snuggs09 and Sommerauer71, it was lovely meeting you all today, thank you for your sweet words which is not strange coming from such kind and warm heart persons as your selves.
Thank you for being here at this moment in time.
I have to go now but you will always be in my prayers.
RE: Would you go out with me?
as always my friend, you will always be the best cheerful man in connecting singles,,
It is more like the voice of Ducks rather than the Ducks them selves ,,