You should always give someone a 2nd chance. Given he stood u up it sounds like he was not really worth the effort. At least you had a go... His loss not yours.
If you don't want to squish the critters to death with old fashioned trap, you can get one which is like a little box. When they go into to get the lure the lid closes behind them.
Use peanut butter as lure.
I just let them go a km up the road in bush.. They never came back. Too far for them
Note if you catch one, chances are there will be another. So set the trap again.
One cannot have a bet each way. If you are serious... get the hell away from your ex. Chances are they are the reason you are looking. Don't play the other person or your partner along.
Most of us have had a myriad of reasons why we end up here. Majority of us have experienced varying degrees of hurt or pain in our lives. Therefore it is always going to be difficult for some of us to learn to trust another potential partner no matter the other person's intentions.
Most decent people will eventually accept you and your progeny given sufficient time and understanding by new aparty.
Maybe the next idiot on site might have sign on as a 'reknaw-gib' so when they ressurect themselves they can just swap the letters around. That way everyone will see them 4 what they are.
RE: YOUR LOVE IS STIMULATED AND AWAKEN FEW DAYS AFTER REJECTED WHAT DO YOU DO
not eja..... !