Vulpine Forum Posts (180)

RE: Can "LOVE" truly be felt via the Net?

Yes!! Definitely Catsy! Without a doubt. We too, myself and my gorgeous Baby Nessa7 are happily, over the moon, 100%, PRIME TIME IN LOVE, after meeting right here on CS no less!
Being honest, we felt an amazing attraction from very very early on. It has only got better and better, and was just pure dynamite when we eventually met and spent a most blissful 2 weeks together. She's all I want and need in the world. I've never been happier with a girl. Sorry if I sound clichéd, but I love her more each day. She's the most wonderful and beautiful girl, and I can't wait to make her my wife!
(...if she'll have me that is!! )
But to answer your query, yes it certainly does and can happen. What we felt was unquestionably "love". We felt it very early on. We knew it. And it was even more confirmed by in-person meeting, and all the time that has transpired since.
People say "You can't feel love online" - you CAN with the RIGHT person.
If it's the right person, you can & DO feel love even without meeting in the flesh. To further support that, you can feel ALL kinds of emotions about all kinds of people here, happy, sad, funny and meaningful. You can feel a dislike for someone. You can feel a liking or friendship too for someone without doubt. Equally, if it's the two right people for each other you most certainly CAN feel love.

Btw, Antoniacv, myself & Nessa are just SOOOOO delighted for you both. You so deserve it, you're such a good and nice person. I'm so glad to see you & your guy happy. We need to add MORE people to our club haha!!

Best of luck to all. Everyone deserves a bit of love in their life.

RE: distance

Love you too Petal

RE: distance

Well I am the happiest *guy* alive Baby.......really I am...

Love you even MORRRRRRRRRRE in person...and seeing you every day...witnessing your beautiful smile and lovely gurly blushes in person......waking up in the early morning and finding beautiful you next to me...my heart just leaping for joy in my chest...
Love you forever Babe

P.S. Your towel is nearly warm enough for when you're finished your shower

RE: distance

Hey Antoniac! I REALLY hope you find your happy ending!! Let's hope it'll be GRRRRREAT for you!!
So where is your lucky guy tell us?!

Hope it really goes fantastic for ye. Let us know how you got on!
Absolute BEST OF WISHES to the both of ye.

RE: distance

Okay my stupid computer just messed up this post

RE: distance

Okay my stupid computer just messed up this post

RE: is it normal for a guy to be shy?

I'd agree with you to a point Rohaan.
But to be fair, *I* would have to say I was quite surprised too to see the reactions to the question here when you consider the massive pre-conception society has that men must be gregarious and larger-than-life, or dark and broody, but ALWAYS confident and self-contained.
Men normally are not allowed to have or show vulnerabilities of ANY kind, though we have our vulnerabilities as much as women.

But...

I guess that pre-conception is changing, for the better! As evidenced by numerous comments here.

There is hope yet for the species!!

RE: is it normal for a guy to be shy?

Wow. That was just so clever

You can sure it GG

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Thanks Jen

Yeah tis going great. She's not living here yet, but all things going as well as they are after 9 months, we hope she'll be living here by next September.
Cheers

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Fair enough

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Yeah
I'd go along with all that. Very good observations/advice.

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Oh right

Sorry Bud.....

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Scriobs, get a PHOTO goin man!

You're going NOWHERE without it. NOWHERE.
You've got a good personality. Personality seems to be top of the women's priority list!

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Fair enough GS. What more can be said I guess?
It'd be so easy to turn the place into a much nicer place, with just some small changes. No Utopia, but a *lot* nicer.
Girls not replying to *me* isnt'something that effects *me* now glad to say!
Cheers Bud

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Oh, and IF they don't "leave you alone" after that - I can't for the life of me see what is so hard about hitting the "Ban user" button, or whatever it's called. Report them etc.
It's a realm of power that you ladies inadvertently do gain, though by the sounds of it, most reluctantly.
But you *have* the power then nonetheless, to be decent and reply to decent letters, and then to bar them if you see fit.

I would do it. Have done it too rather than just blanking someone's nice offering to me.

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Fair play to ya wiseone
Fair play to ya.

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Yeah...you're probably right Marianette. Unless they explicitly say they're "Not single/Not looking", it's frustrating then for those who genuinely *are* looking.

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Hi Seren!!!

GREAT to see you here too!!! Haha!!

Tis a small old world isn't it?!


Yeah, my Baby is great thanks for asking! I'll send her your regards, very decent of you to ask!

Hope you're keeping well yourself?? Any crooner sweep you off your feet up there in Donegal yet??
We'll have to go out on a double date when you get *YOUR MAN* Missus!!

Ciao

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

Yes hmmm hmmmm yessss......
The "plot thickens" doens't it???

RE: Plenty of Fish in the Sea but........

My God!! Haha!! There I was reading this post and nodding heartily to the content several times, only to scroll up the page a little further and see who the author of the wise, and eloquently turned words were - the great JAC!!

Shur how are ya?!!

Fancy meeting you in my neck of the woods huh?!

RE: ready made

In my opinion it's definitely harder cchances. Harder obviously, than if one was single...but then again, being a single father (in my case obviously) can make you more attractive to a degree, to single mothers. They *know* you understand the complications and responsibilities involved. They can even admire you for standing by your child. Some don't and run a mile. Better off without 'em eh?

RE: Can you really fall in love with someone on the internet??

No problem Roger. Very honourable and spoken like a gentleman.
Cheers and best of luck to you too.
V

RE: Can you really fall in love with someone on the internet??

Roger,
Please remind me never to contribute to any of your threads again. I don't know what social standards are like in France. But in the rest of civilised society, where even if you are not in agreement with their view, if someone contributes towards 'your thing', you do make some token of acknowledgement for their time and energy.
As an OP, you have the manners of a goat.

RE: Can You Believe In A Religeon You Have Never Questioned.?

Hoolet: - "Religion is just a word. The understanding of goodness is what God wishes us to reach out for."

*Totally* agree with you. I don't know why EVERYBODY cannot just accept this, and REALLY, DROP THE REST!!

We would have no more fights!! Not just religious ones, but all kinds of fighting and injustice.

So simple!! "Goodness"

"Peace and goodwill to ALL men and women"...

RE: Can You Believe In A Religeon You Have Never Questioned.?

Lana2 "Not just interesting but the only way to find the Truth :)) "

I'd be inclined to agree with you to an extent, however I don't think that one should *necessarily* forsake their own theories and deductions, in favour of somebody else's. No matter WHO the leading "experts" on Theology are...they are still but mortals...same as everyone else.

"In fact, our whole reality should come under close scrutiny....we should over and over again keep gathering all relevant information in order to effectively learn about ourselves, our environment and our future :))"
Completely agree with you here, as it is totally in keeping with my view that everybody should formulate their own opinions based on the obvservations they make from their own lives and experiences, and even more importantly, divinations coming from their own hearts.

Peace be with you too

RE: Can You Believe In A Religeon You Have Never Questioned.?

Thank "God"!! (Haha!! )
Good to see somebody with a bit of far-sightedness and lateral thinking.

Well said. All of it. Very well said.

RE: Can you really fall in love with someone on the internet??

Spiritalk,
Thank you so much for your gracious well-wishing and blessings. It's very kind of you. Thank you so much.

RE: Can you really fall in love with someone on the internet??

Awwh Gorgeous, that's lovely.

It's the way I feel about ya too.
I'll be pickin that star out of the sky for ya one of these nights if I can at all, I'll do my best for ya my Baby

RE: Can you really fall in love with someone on the internet??

Hi AwakenMe,
My beautiful Indian Princess (Nessa7) is from South Africa. Bit of a distance away, but we're trying to make it work so we can live together fairly soon.

RE: Can you really fall in love with someone on the internet??

Sorry that last post was meant specifically for the benefit of "MrLuurv78". Hope it's of use to you.

Incidentally I really don't like the quote/not quote system here. Far too often this kind of thing happens. If you want to quote....you should only be asked ONCE....not a second time.

Anyway...can't look a gift horse in the mouth eh?! It's a *free* site an all!!