what to do....???

blipper2000: situations where someone refuses or is too scared to accept reality are very difficult to deal with


I know... that's why I'd love to get her out of there!

what to do....???

I hope so!

what to do....???

Hey LL
her family is close... they all want her to leave him, but she's scared... it's her first child and for some reason she is keeping him close. I'm gonna keep calling her to try to get her over here for a bit.
I'll piss her off with my nagging lol it may help!
but seriously... she's not in a good form
it's a shame

RE: Depression - Serious thread please!

thanks!
but wouldn't have made it without my friends too....

RE: Depression - Serious thread please!

I know,
I was there
and the friends that helped me are forever in my heart!
i know how bleak it can get
when you can't leave the house, sleep, eat etc etc
I've been there
my friends helped, but it was I that had to make the first step!

RE: Depression - Serious thread please!

I agree with you!
I didn't want to put everyone in the same basket.
In certain cases there are people that really do have to help themselves!
but it is maybe not the case here!

RE: Depression - Serious thread please!

I don't want to sound harsh...
I was on both sides of this as well.
Some people has to hit rock bottom before they start taking care of themselves.

what you should ask yourself is:
are you really helping your friend?
Or are you being a crutch.

I'm sorry to say it that way! I really am!
I know these kinds of people that drain everyone's energy.

RE: why...

I don't think you have to be mean!
be yourself... and don't stop your regular activities to be able to chat to him!

just don't be too available! strange eh???

RE: Whats the first thing that comes to mind?

christmas

RE: METAL!!! EARS :)



head banger

RE: Whats the first thing that comes to mind?

pub!

RE: Whats the first thing that comes to mind?

pint!

(Hi Tralee :-))

RE: Whats the first thing that comes to mind?

salute!

RE: Whats the first thing that comes to mind?

parade

RE: Whats the first thing that comes to mind?

space

RE: why...

the silly thing is...
for guys and gals...
is that they need to chase-hunt.

if someone is too available, the other usually gets up and runs!
we are pitiful creatures when it comes to choosing a mate.

girls like bad boys, or the ones that need fixing! lord knows why!
guys search for the girl that they need to hunt and chase all the time and claim as there prize or trophy of some sort.

so, the bottom line is, if you answered the phone every evening to chat with this guy... even if you are a great girl and all, he may have gotten bored, cause there was no competition!

its a sad way to be, but 80% of the people react that way.

cheers :-)

RE: Whats the first thing that comes to mind?

distraction

RE: should single parents date other single parents?

How about if you just go with the flow and see who crosses your path!?
I dated a guys with and without kids... as long as the person respects the fact that your a mom and you have maybe different priorities, its all good.

cheerscheers

RE: need Advice

Hi Dream Angel... I have a little remedy for you.

put your thumbs at the bottom of your skull (its a small hollow spot, just above the last vertebrae that you can feel)
move both thumbs outwards about a half an inch or less, until you... there are bones and nerves there. When you press on it, you feel a little pressure.
massage in a circular outward motion.
Do that for a few minutes and it helps the blood circulate.
then, drink lots of water.

its works for everyone that I tried it on and its almost instant.

hope it works for you.

cheers
ll

RE: Liars

Hi Losty,

its the small lies that get me! like my ex told his daughter once that I bought him a shirt!!! I hate shopping first of all :-)
but I did go to the store with him and he made me look at him while he tried on clothes !!! roll eyes
and he paid for it... so why did he tell his girl that I got it...goes beyond me!

we do hear the funniest fibs! apparently, its a sign of intelligence!!!
I'm guessing that have to have a good memory, cause if you lie all the time, you have to keep your story straight lol.

I wouldn't be able to lie if my life dependent on it!
so, why people do it!? not quite sure... I think its just for attention or to make people believe that you have a hectic life! hahah

past my bed time... nite nite all... or good morning (4 am over there)

cheers

RE: canada

hey
if you need any pointers before you come over, i'll be glad to help you in any way... i can probably get info quickly!
cheers

ps...are you sure you want to come over??? its really cold and snowy here lollaugh

make sure you have all the right paper work and things should be fine
bye

RE: who works out and keeps fit?

Hey LL,
Its been a while eh?!
things are going good... My son and I are having fun...
how about you?
whats new on the other side of the pond?

Hey, I should be going over in May if all goes well... I'm wondering if there will be a cs meet then?!

cheers

RE: who works out and keeps fit?

the Wii is also cool for starting off when someone wants to get back into shape!
cheers

RE: who works out and keeps fit?

hi all,
I haven't been on this site in ages!!!! hope everyone is doing well.

I work out 5 days a week. I do it from home...but this week I started a military style workout :-) well, military for me... 1h1/2, 3 days a week. crunches,sit ups, lunges, squats, push ups... i also use resistant elastics and have an elliptic for cardio...and its to keep fit and I love it.

and since i'm from the land of snow laugh I have my ski's, snow shoes and skates by the door.
but today its -31 with the windchill... I'm thinkin I'll stick with the indoor activities.

wishing everyone a great day and happy new year!
cheers

online dating!!!

I got this email via this site a few weeks ago.
this guy, really interested in meeting me.
we haven't chatted or anything... he sent me just one email (i didn't reply)
guess what he asked me???
what size shoes do I wear!!!!

freaky isn't it?!
lol

must listen to this



I have to get their cd

hope everyone is well

cheers
head banger

RE: My Worst Valentines Present EVER was:

my worst vt gifts

2 cooking pots!!! and yes, a big fluffy, up to your neck bath robe!!!
how romantic!!!!
i'm not much for flowers...but plants yeah.

lol


have a gr8 day guys
ll

RE: In One word describe yourself !

Honest

RE: What things did you learn from your last relationship?

so have I!!!!

RE: More Ears

i'm presently listening to

Apocalyptica featuring Adam Gontier of Three Days Grace - I Don t Care

and before that

Bullet for my Valentine...what a great group!

cheers

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