rohaan Forum Posts (10,510)

RE: Are you miserable?

RIGHT ON!!

RE: Are you miserable?

on a tad serious note—-I absolutely refuse to be miserable. I really believe that being stressed, unhappy, miserable, et al, are CHOICES. Yes, sometimes Life is very difficult; it is for everyone…but many people learn to manage all of these events and disappointments.

RE: Do you care if people like you or not on CS....?

RE: Do you care if people like you or not on CS....?

I SO get this--(it would be time for the funny farm, the crazy crib, the nut nest, right??)

people getting upset with people they don't know, can't see, have no past with, etc....

RE: Happy Birthday Rohaan!!!!

He’s still around…a real woodsman, this fellow. And, knows how to pitch a tent. And, keep it up, and mighty sturdy…praise the Lord…

RE: Happy Birthday Rohaan!!!!

ah, darn it…

RE: Happy Birthday Rohaan!!!!

RE: Happy Birthday Rohaan!!!!

Thank you…don’t know why, but for some reason I actually feel younger, not older, there’s a lightness in my step, I’m out on my bicycle today…is this how it works? Is the “ lad” in me back?

RE: Do you care if people like you or not on CS....?

Have we met? Geeze…

RE: Happy Birthday Rohaan!!!!

I’m still having fun…

RE: Happy Birthday Rohaan!!!!

why would you do that? I mean, I thought we were buddies, the Speedo junk, etc…






Thanks for the birthday wish…

RE: Happy Birthday Rohaan!!!!

I go there all the time— practically my backyard..Thank you so much..

RE: Do angels hear everything you say to others?

Anything you say, Petronella...

RE: Do angels hear everything you say to others?

RE: Do you care if people like you or not on CS....?

I'm there..

RE: Do you care if people like you or not on CS....?

Thanks a zillion, darls. Nice to see you. I'm legally retired this month!! No more taxes!!

RE: Where do you live?

The beach. The wonderful, brilliant, beautiful beach. Thanks be to God...

RE: Do angels hear everything you say to others?

that's what Judas Iscariot said.... Pedro, you're the same as all guys--a head on one end and a hole in the other. Suck it up, pal.

RE: Do angels hear everything you say to others?

does Jesus watch people jack off? you are too silly for words....

RE: Do you care if people like you or not on CS....?

RE: Do you care if people like you or not on CS....?

Yes, I told her you're the nicest scoundrel and rake I've ever known.....

...you can thank me later. S'my birthday, laddie...

RE: Women's expectations from men

Hello there, chara ...I have been reading this thread with moderate to high interest. The final analysis is that it isn't gender-leaning. It really is about calm, clear, thoughtful COMMUNICATION. For example, let's just play with the OP's heading, and just for the moment assume, for the sake of argument, the woman's reaction:

A man arrives home from work. It's been a whirlwind day, he's worn out and uptight. But he's happy to be at his cottage, with his loving wife. He cheerfully calls out, "Honey, I'm home. How was the day for my best girl?"
She shouts from the kitchen, "Bloody hell. Can't you SEE how stressed I am?? What are you SO damned happy about, ANYWAY? And stop getting the furniture and floors dirty with those boots!" (and so on...)
Now, he was completely loving and polite. And no, he can't "see" her, nor does he have any idea how bad her day was. And now he's down, because he came home with a glad heart to see her, and all he got was insulted. It's these kinds of scenarios that cause problems. JMO

RE: Would , or could you forgive your partner …

Technically, you're correct. "Ego" isn't necessarily a 'negative'. I believe that the word has been used as a 'negative' so much that it has BECOME a negative (via osmosis! ). A better way to put the thought together would be "s/he has abused his ego"....There are many things/words that many people automatically "see" as negative, such as 'anger', 'bitter', 'petulant', and so on....ergo, 'anger' is a very natural, and often helpful emotion or feedback, but only really negative if misused. I hope I'm explaining this in a sage form....

RE: How do you define Treason?

"If treason doth prosper, none dare call it treason"

RE: worst incident in your life

My best friend died when we were in our mid to late 20's (27 & 28). I've been through many other terrible events, but this one is still the very worst.

RE: I dip my fries in _______ (you can't say ketchup)

I would have thought so, too, but according to google there are about 70 left in the United States--one in Newport, OR, and one in Woodburn, OR, but there used to be hundreds of them. You're correct, their food was/is very good.

RE: Would , or could you forgive your partner …

Actually, I haven't spoken to her yet, but word's out that she did VERY WELL. Which she should have.....(they own rentals, which are like SOLID GOLD in Oregon ) I'm extremely pleased for her. Way.

RE: Would , or could you forgive your partner …

In my case, (and I was in love with a lady years ago) what it did was close the door forever. Not interested in getting burned again. No one is worth giving up my peace of mind for. Absolutely NO ONE.

RE: Would , or could you forgive your partner …

A relative of mine just finalized her divorce. He's a filthy, rotten, passive-aggressive narcissistic egotistical misogynist. He also has some bad points......

RE: Would , or could you forgive your partner …

"Scarlett, I don't believe that a vase broken in a thousand pieces can be put back together as if new; as if nothing ever happened. Not really. No, not at all."-----Rhett Butler, in 'Gone With The Wind'