Thank you Anna :) I dust myself up , patch my heart and try to move on . what scares me it is the next broken heart or wasted time when a person is not serious and says they are.
Thank you everyone for sharing your life experiences and love. :)
such a wonderful heart warming and beautiful love :) I was crying when i read it. I think you are right , he raised the bar high in a good way :)
I wish I will someday find such a man and ill make him happy in return as well. I think it is finding the person that compliment and understands you. I thought i found him with the last one ( and im sure ill be judged and some will say i am a gold digger , actually My monetary situation was much better than him ) but he broke my heart . i ended up in the hospital with chest pains.
After investing so much in relationships, even when they say they are honest and respectful it can be very relative to that person. I honestly gave up that i will ever find a suitable mate for myself and I wont settle
I have another twist for you : what you call a man who mooches off a woman ??!!!
I am sorry but your generalization is insulting to both genders.
People are smart enough to decide what they want to do in their life , their possessions,...
For example : My own parents when they got married ( out of love mind you and still were till their last days) and both had higher education and never cheated on each other , decided from day one that dad works and provides and mom takes care of the house and the kids yet she was involved in every decision they took and even us when we grew older.
This is a choice between two partners. be clear from day one what you willing to give or sacrifice for each other and dont resent each other. unfortunately, most people either have foggy glasses or you fill the blanks.
It depends on the two people involved, their chemistry and what they want out of the relationship in the end. They are adults and can decide for themselves.
regardless of the gender, a productive person should not support an able person while dating. That is a poor judgement Most people would NOT ask for money and ppl who do they just want to mooch off.NO handout from me :)
It is not true. as many have already mentioned you project what you want. having a pic with ure abs showing doesnt attract the nice and lovely girls.
Having said the above, I do not need anyone to take care of me. I work hard and i am established and therefore I want the same in my partner. I am not attracted to someone who is not similar to me and my standards of life and being a hard worker. and by the way all of that has nothing to do with being faithful or not. !!
this is not only disturbing but also illegal. but what I do not fathom with the women is that, it takes two to tango. the woman might not have known your husband was married and nohing binds you and the woman. why not just leave your cheating husband and forget about him and move on with life ??!!!
I am attracted to personality, character and maturity. so in general i am attracted to men who are older but mature and do enjoy their company and their values . on the rare occasions i do meet men my age or younger that are mature. i never dated younger but my age and much older i did.
I don't believe there is a person for everyone at anytime. they might be at some time of yours and their lives but it is just pure luck and the rest is hard work and dedication if they recognize they fit together. i am sure at least at one time in your life, you found a person that you clicked with so well but they were taken and you had to honor that and move on or maybe one of you were not ready and didnt recognize the potential ( when both single). just take it as it goes , yet it gets lonely but dont settle
Dishonesty goes both ways. In your case , they are not interested so why sweat it . Move on. The worst thing is actually ppl dragging it out when they are not interested , so this is a blessing in disguise :) and most of the time you can guess more or less if the person is interested in a way you want them to be interested in you :) don't be upset at all just move on :)
It is easy to spread propaganda where ever you might be in the world. the only way to educate one's self by educating on's self not from false sources but from true sources. lets face it just becuase some so so called muslims [ and im saying so called , since islam says and the 2nd chapter that a muslim is anyone who is believer in god [ and they come with different names ] , who are ppl of book or who ever who has a good heart . bible has similar versus with regards to non belivers but you dont see many Christians quote and quote i dont like to use labels killing ppl.
in my opinion , who ever kills ppl he is not human no matter what religion [ which suppose to bring all humans together in peace] what sect or what mentality they are.
And sir at your age, you should be wise enough to spread love and peace and tranquility rather than fear . Im not condoning such action by any religion just to be clear. religion has nothing to do with violance and if some misguided idiot calls himself an imam and spreads that he should be reported , thats how terrorism starts . no matter what religion from . rather than create mass hate for god sake !!!
Thanx vanity , dont be sad my dear , i didnt mean it in that way maybe i worded it wrong. ofcourse there are ppl who love me in thsi world [ parents , well mom now since i lost my father very recently , relatives] but since i have been working abroad , i do not have any frinds in my own town, and since i ve been working and studying all my life very hard , i practically never had a social life , what i want terribly and i think most of us want is mutual love, that leads to creating a family. oh well one day
im thinking , that i havent had a social life in probably no exaguration in 10yrs or more , feeling lonely [ as in no friends and no one to love and be loved ]
i heard this from a person that my family knows. this guy is in his 50's been always single and does not hold a steady job. but yet u see him with the most gorgous and trendy girl why !!!!!!!!!?
his philosophy , always ask a very beautiful girl out cuase most guys are intimidated of her so she is very lonely.
i guess in his case it works. and plz members [ ladies and gentlemen inculded] dont bash me , im just putting a point of view out there
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Thank you Anna :) I dust myself up , patch my heart and try to move on . what scares me it is the next broken heart or wasted time when a person is not serious and says they are.Thank you everyone for sharing your life experiences and love. :)